if you felt like you had a lot of issues to deal with but you love this guy more than anything. would you leave him? do you think i am wrong cause i did?
2006-10-31 13:31:53 · 5 answers · asked by too_damned_kute 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just described me...
Emphatically...YES!
I am/was a very broken person. I believe love means wanting that person to be happy. If you are as you say, aren't healed, that says it all.
You cannot make someone happy if you aren't happy.
I broken person cannot have a healthy relationship.
We talked about it before I left. he knows I love him and to me that means everything.
Getting on a plane, flying 1,500 miles away from the man I love was by far one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I saw his pain and I knew I had put so much of it there. My heart was shattered, knowing I would probably never see his eyes again. It was the sadness that I did see that gave me the ability to do what I did.
I loved him so much, I let him go.
I had/have to heal in so many ways. I can only pray that someday I will be with him again but if not, I know that true love is really out there now. Something I had begun to doubt. Just my luck I found it at a very sad/bad time in my life.
I don't regret the decision.
Everyday I am getting stronger as I begin to heal from life....
I do miss him but am fortunate enough to be able to talk to him everyday and know he doesn't hate me.
You should talk to him if you don't.
I admire anyone that realizes that sometimes we have to hurt to heal.
I applaud your bravery and wish you the best. If you ever need an ear, message me. I swear you have asked two questions that I could have so easily written.
Good Luck. You shouldn't regret what you did.
~T~
2006-10-31 17:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the relationship can not get beyond the issues and you have to move on. Later you are going to realize that it just was not meant to be. It hurts though!
2006-10-31 21:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same situation. I don't know what to do. But I think some guys are not very responsible and they'll find new girls very quickly after we leave them. I'm not leaving him, I believe i can change him.
2006-10-31 21:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you needed some time to get some things straight with you, then I don't think it was wrong. If he loves you as much as you love him then he would understand and hopefully you guys can straighten things out with your relationship.
2006-10-31 21:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dasja L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like your issues are going to hurt the relationship and there is no way the two of you can work it out together then you do what's best for both of you even if it hurts like hell
2006-10-31 21:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by serenity86love 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋