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there is this boy, we had a summer love and we are still communicating to this day. we both say i love you...but i dunt know if he meanas it...my best friend says he does, but i no i do....but i dont know if i was juss another girl that summer to get with. he alwys says that he wiilll come odwn and see me since he lives in VA and i live in GA.....i want it to work...what should i do?

2006-10-31 13:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Just be really honest with him and with yourself. Figure out when/if/how you can see each other in person, because that's going to be important to an ongoing relationship. However, your distance is actually not THAT far compared to a lot of people who are having long distance relationships. Be glad that you're in the same country (and even the same side of the country!) as each other, and figure out who has the best long distance rates. Good luck!

2006-10-31 13:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0 0

wait and see if he comes and sees you. Long distance can work out, but after a year or two it will get harder, you will have to find out how to see each other more often.But before that year, talk to him on phone, internet and mail as much as you can. Make it that yous can stay in touch a lot. Find ways to get to him or met half way. But first find out if he is willing to come to you. Wait and see if he does. If you really want this to work than you need to follow your heart, believe him when he says i love you. You dont want to back away from him and start thinking neagative thoughts because this guy might really be the one, and you will end up pushing him away. Its hart i know, you dont want to put your heart on the line because there is a chance he might break it , and by putting it out there even farther it will hurt even more. but you need to love like its never going to hurt. It might be worth it at the end. Just try your hardest to find ways to see each other as much as possible and after a year if yous are still together make plans on how it would be possible to see each other more, like someone move closer or anything like that....if this is love it will work out, and yous will past the test and be even stronger.

2006-10-31 21:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Long distance relationships rarely work for adults, must less young folks...enjoy his friendship and communicating with him, but it's very unlikely anything will ever come of this...

Don't let other, local, opportunities pass you by...long distance relationships tend to be very lonely...and unless at least one of the parties is free to relocate to be near the other person, what's the point of getting into it anyway?

2006-10-31 21:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

go with your gut instinct on how serious you feel it really is. you know your relationship better than anyone. yes, long distance can work although i think its a situation where you really have to be into one another. i know for a fact a friend in PA has been dating a girl in Cali for like 9 months. she just flew in to see him and they are totally in love. they talk lots on the phone and such. good luck!

2006-10-31 21:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mg 1 · 0 0

You should put as much concentration into school work and your education as you are in this boy and you will go very far. Come on now, this is really silly. Concentrate on education and the rest will come later, you have a life time ahead of you. God bless

2006-10-31 21:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0 1

Honesty. Communication. Wanting to make it work. I would say that these would help a long distance relationship.

2006-10-31 21:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

long distance that is something trust has to be lock-down in that relationship cause the funny thing is you have no idea waht he is doing and he has no idea what you are doing so if trust is there maybe it can work

2006-10-31 21:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just think of it as a good time and forget it until you go back on vacation..........if he is still available fine if not you are on vacation have fun

2006-10-31 21:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0 0

move in with each other and then u can see 4 ur self if he loves u good luck

2006-10-31 21:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

call him and talk to him about it

2006-10-31 21:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Aissata 4 · 0 0

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