Sometimes i just want to cry but i can't...... I probably haven't seriously cried in months or a year. My life is pointless and I suck at everything i do. Sometimes i just day dream about me dying. Sometimes i will just picture over and over in my head me putting a gun in my mouth and splatting my brains.
What the hell is wrong with me. It's nothing that anti-depressants can help. It's my life that is the problem.
2006-10-31 13:26:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
This may be totally off base, but because my life and mental health were finally saved with a blood test, here goes:
Get to a real doctor. Make sure you get a psychiatrist who will perform blood tests.
This reminds me of a hormone problem related to the one I had. It could have killed me, but only after 15 years of tormenting my organs and let's not even talk about my mind.
Now, even bankrupt after lay-off and depression, I am relieved and happy to be alive.
I could be way off base, but there are a lot of mental health pors who do not refer people to a real doctor, and this kind of crap goes undetected for years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Worth a try. And if it doesn't help you, you may pass it along to someone else, whose life is improved or saved!
And that makes it all worth it.
Good luck!
2006-10-31 13:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may need anti-depressants whether you believe so or not. However you need to know that if you drink or use any substance while on them then they are pointless. Why not a change of location? A fresh start? I am bi-polar (diagnosed when I was 8) also an alcaholic (currently sober 18 months). Trust me I have felt like that often in my lifetime! Now I rarely feel that w3ay but took a long time to find the right anti depressant and the right diet/excersice and right program for me to get sober and stay sober before I got here. I think everyone feels that way every now and then and thoughts don't make you crazy.... Acting them out does however. I hope all goes well for ya!
2006-10-31 13:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seem to have the same problem. I can't cry..I might get a little filled up but I can't cry. Don't know what the problem is. My life sucks as well, I'm on antidepressants too, and they really don't do anything. Sometimes you have to try different ones to find the one that is right for you. But, as lousy as my life has been for many, many years, I would never consider ending it because everything eventually works out. You never know what the next day or week will bring. Whenever I hear of someone wanting to end their life, I remember a story I saw on the news about a guy who was so despondent...he lost his job and couldn't find another one (I believe he was in the modeling or acting field), he didn't have money for anything, etc... Well, he ended his life, and in that very day's mail was the job offer he was waiting for. So, please, don't ever consider putting anything in your mouth other than food or drink!!!!! Be patient and trust me, things will work out. Maybe you need to talk to a therapist. email me or call the number below...
2006-10-31 15:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by mystery_lvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I apologize that your life seems so negative right now. Let's handle on problem at a time. As for the crying thing watch some sad movies and hopefully you will cry. I am a very emotional person but hide when Im sad (kinda like a guy breaking something instead of crying) but when I watch movies or read a sad book I feel like its ok to cry, and once you start you can think about the issues in your life and cry about those wihtout having to explain. As for the anit-depressants not working you should speak to your doctor. Lastly please do not "swallow a gun" your life is precious and treasured and although it may not appear to be true people would miss you. Try to keep a positive outlook and remember God is watching over you. This struggle to shall pass.
2006-10-31 13:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by University Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you should seriously see a doctor, family or psychiatrist. You are suffering from severe depression, and if it goes on for too long, your daydreams will come true. And every life is worth it. Please try to get help.
2006-10-31 13:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I wonder if my antidepressants have caused the no crying, numbness. Maybe you could use some intensive therapy such as a partial hospitalization program. Check it out.
2006-10-31 13:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a much bigger problem that you are repressing and you know if you cry you won't stop until your screaming. Do it. when the screaming stops there is a very calm after feeling and things perk up.
2006-10-31 16:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look dude, I love you. Tomorrow is another day, I got woke up out of my sleep to tell you this. Be at peace. Diana
2006-10-31 17:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Red! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are all kinds of steps you should take. Counseling being your first. there are a lot of different medications you can take but it would take a psychiatrist to answer that one.
2006-10-31 13:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by too_damned_kute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't beleive in the Lord...... start...........and get baptized..... if you do beleive, go by his word...... and dont just be saying that you beleive but dont beleive it in your mind.... You have to have the lord in yo life.....Things will turn out for the better. Trust me; I been through some of the situations..
2006-10-31 13:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋