Why a white guy tried to flirt with me?

Question

@I'll bee dat
The reason why I ask that question is because I honestly never been confronted and I do not know what to expect from a white man so I don't think my question is wrong. That's why I'm on here to get some type of ideal of what to expect. Yes, it is stereotype sadly to say. Black women shouldn't be afraid to talk to white men because we think white men want us for our p.... just like White women shouldn't be afraid to talk to black men because they don't want black men to think they want them for their dyck. Again it is sad that so many people are stereotype. We tend to believe what we hear from the media.or people period.
@ dynasty
? I don't understand where you coming from, but you got it all wrong sweety.

Answer 1

a guy is a guy is a guy. one white guy is not the whole race. ask him if you want to know.

Answer 2

Stereotypes are not a bad thing as everyone thinks, they are for the most part true, and usually funny if used right (Dave Chappelle, Carlos Mencia). Why a white guy tried to flirt with you? Well this world has become so liberal now that there are all kinds of diff. interracial rel. going on. I mean everyone is mixed, but the mixes keep getting more diff. Im German, Italian, Native American.....but dont get me wrong im American, my fam has been here for a LONG time and we have been "Americanized" so to speak so now im just "caucasion". In saying that, I am mixed, but I have not and do not ever expect to date outside of my race. Not for any particular reason just a choice. But alot of white guys (some of my friends) are attracted to black girls and (this is where I think its wrong) not for relationships but just for some "fun". So you call it a stereotype, but thats proof right there its true. You see alot of white women dating black guys just b/c its not exactly "socially acceptable" and ppl still shun them for it, just out of rebellion. I personally think that ppl are WAY too different in general and things are just easier if you stay within ur own race (friends, bf/gf, etc.).

Answer 3

Could it be you're attractive??? The question you should be asking is why did this guy flirt with me!!! If you need to ask at all. And,.......My question to you is why not?? I know many many very attractive woman, who are all races. There is a young woman at my new job who I am very attracted too (among many), who is black. I flirt a little, she's a very sweet young woman! I'm not interested in sleeping with her, or any other woman at this time!! Actualy, the only woman who I have ever truely loved is mexican indian......very very dark skin. I have been hit on several times by black woman, and never thought to myself if it's right or wrong, concerning race. Heres a lil story for ya. 9th grade Kathleen Junior High, Lakeland Fl. I was every bit of 5ft 7inch....120 lbs. One very tall black girl prob a good 6 foot 5 inch. had been lookn at me all day. My so called friends made fun of me all day. At the end of the day this young woman came up to me looked down in to my eyes and said " You're the cutest white guy I've ever seen" All I could think was how the hell could I kiss her way up there, if we went out!

Answer 4

First, you need to know that virtually all guys (especially the younger ones), are only interested in one thing! It does not matter where they get it, only that they do! Women, (all) seek a more meaningful relationship but need to understand what guys want first!

Yup!

Ladies, do not sell yourselves cheap! Heck, do not sell yourselves at all!!! Sex is not all it's racked up to be! After 700 some odd years, I should know!!! Save it for the man who will marry you!

White guys do find some Black woman beautiful! Most guys find woman of any race beautiful! And they are!!!

Don't take offence if a guy of any color finds you attractive. It just means that you are!

But realize, you don't have to give anything away to anyone!!!

Hope this helps,

The Ol' Sasquatch Ü

Answer 5

Well, for what it's worth, white men are just like black men. Some really do want you just for your p****, just like black men. Others, however, find your genuinely attractive--physically, mentally, or both--and would like to go a little further to learn more about you, just like black men.

The only way to know, just like black men, is to use your experience and judgment, be gracious and polite and have some conversation. Their true intentions will come out soon enough.

And think of the bonus! If you get over your reluctance to open up to a white man, look how many more fish are you in your pond to choose from! Just like white men who open themselves up to black women. ;)

Good luck!

Answer 6

Did it ever cross your mind that he is attracted to you. I'm white but when I look at people I do not see color I see all of Gods people Yes it is sad that the media dose these things but that is why we have the right to ignore them. Honey it doesn't matter white black red purple or green we are all Gods children, and we are all the same.

Answer 7

Uh...maybe he thought you were an attractive woman and was trying to get your attention?

Treat people at face value until they give you a reason for you to treat them otherwise. FYI, my husband of six years is white; the qualities I find appealing in him are the same qualities I appreciate in others, he just happens to have extra.

Again, unless he did something completely inappropriate (which all men are capable of, regardless of race), just treat him like you would any other guy.

Was he cute?!

Answer 8

Ok. I am African American and have dated caucasion men in the past. I kind of felt the same way, like there would be some big difference. In all honesty, there wasn't. Men are men, and if he is a good guy regardless of race, you will be treated with the respect you deserve.

Answer 9

not all white men are after black P***Y. Dont believe all you hear, while its true most men are after p***y, we really dont care if its black, white, mexican, asian, or anything, follow your feeling,s if you dont feel right daiting a white man then so be it, if you dont wanan flirt thats your choice, but jsut because he is white and flirts doesnt mean he wants black p***y, he just may find you attactive.

Answer 10

You sound like you're being racist, honestly, and thinking white guys are racist to be hitting on you. We're all equally humans with a different skin color, so, why can't he hit on you? He obviously just thought you were attractive and possibly approachable.

Answer 11

Probably because you are cute. The beauty of our modern age is people think less and less about skin color, and more about attraction and personality.