ok i dont want to offend yall but i got a 13 year old cousin shes a girl she has a bf thats always getting her private parts well her boobs and butt and told me that he wants to have sex and was trying to rape her but she loves him but shes just not ready her bf is 14 what can i tell her ( my keyborad is mixed up i cant put commas )
2006-10-31 13:00:43 · 13 answers · asked by dannygzz2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 and 14 are too young to be in that kind of situation. He needs psychological help, and she needs to stay away from having a boyfriend for a while. Tell her she has every right not to be ready. Tell her she needs to get as far away from him as she possibly can. If he's tried to rape her, he's no good for her anyway. She needs someone who won't even try to kiss her. As a matter of fact, she needs to stay away from boys for a while.
2006-10-31 13:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by jnhnghgrl7572002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing you can tell her. She's not using her head if she's hanging around this guy after he's already shown so little respect for her. The only thing you can do now is to tell her parents, and/or the police. This 14yo boy is threatening to commit a crime against your cousin, & she's either too young, or too enamoured to do anything about it.
She'll be angry with you at 1st for telling, but believe me there will come a day when she will tell you just how gratefull she is that you did something about this. If you don't do anything, then I can promise you that one day, she will come to you & ask you why you did nothing when you knew she was about to make the mistake of her life.
2006-10-31 13:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 01:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by cardish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to develop some self esteem and do not allow this guy to get physical. If he tried to rape her she should definitely not see him alone, without other people being around.
Better yet, she should stop seeing him at all.
2006-10-31 13:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to rape her? Yikes, report that kid to the police and tell her to stay as far away from him as possible.
2006-10-31 13:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to refrain from sex and to be just friends and if he doesn't like that...tell him to take a hike...Hit the road Jack and don't ya come back no more no more no more no more
2006-10-31 13:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is trying to rape her then you all need to report him to the police and help your cousin get counseling
2006-10-31 13:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that if she's not ready and he won't accept that then she needs to get rid of him in the quickest way possible.
2006-10-31 13:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by melaskinados 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her that she should stop seeing that guy bafore something will happen to her..they're too young for that!
2006-10-31 13:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by AnNe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what the fool said, also tell her parents & his parents, then if anything does happen, you at least warned someone.
2006-10-31 13:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by SouthernPatriot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋