saw someone you love like a brother/sister with someone that wasn't his/her wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend? I saw my fiance's sister at a local fast food place with a man who is not her boyfriend. They were in a booth on the same side feeding each other fries. She got ketchup on the corner of his mouth, wiped it off, and sucked it off your finger. When she saw me looking she just stared at me with this "Oh, sh*t!" look on her face. Should I tell her boyfriend, ask my fiance to talk to her boyfriend, tell her she needs to tell her boyfriend, or ask my fiance to tell her she needs to tell her boyfriend? If none of these, what do you all think I should do, or what would YOU do if you were in my situation? Thanks in advance.
2006-10-31 12:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by jnhnghgrl7572002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To kristy, I didn't even think of that. I have a camera phone, and I had it with me when I saw them. Guess I'm just not a fast thinker lol. Also, I forgot another little detail. The guy is her boyfriend's best friend. They were trying to decide between my fiance and this guy to be the best man when (if) they get married. They decided on my fiance because the best friend said he doesn't go to weddings even if he has the offer to be IN it.
2006-10-31 13:13:40 · update #1
i would confront her about the issue and tell her boyfriend anyway. if there was nothing going on between them, it shouldnt matter to her if you tell her boyfriend. or you can confront her and tell her that either she tells her boyfriend or you tell him, and then say what i just said, that if there was really nothing going on between them that it shouldnt matter to her that the boyfriend knows about it. unless you would want to tell your fiance as a backup in case you cant seem to tell the boyfriend face to face. be careful though because she could accuse you of being a liar to her boyfriend and he may side with her. mayb if u see them together again, you could take a picture as proof
2006-10-31 13:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my fiance to talk to her... it's not your duty to go around telling the boyfriend or anything, she's old enought to take responsibilities over her actions. But do tell your fiance, it's his sister anyway... he might get her to talk to the boyfriend
2006-10-31 13:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Setsuna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't get involved, you don't want your fiance's sister getting on your bad side before you're married to him. Whatever his sister's doing just leave it up to her. or just tell your fiance what you saw and let him deal with it with his family.
2006-10-31 13:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep right out of it. Sometimes people shoot the messenger so to speak. If you tell her boyfriend and she says you're lying, he'll always side with her and you'll be the bad guy...
2006-10-31 13:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Your name is Wess and you aint in that Mess!!
You will look like the bad guy at the end.
2006-10-31 13:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend
2006-10-31 13:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋