i was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years where i can't even explain how close we were. he worked for my dad at one point, i basically lived with him and we felt like one person.. he was in the hospital for 5 nights at one piont and i spent every visiting minute with him that i could.. loved him deeply.
somewhere along the line the young and stupid side came in and we continually fought to the point where we broke up for good last april. i began seeing another guy and he has started seeing another girl last week. my new b/f is the best you could ask for.. soo sweet :-)! we began saying i love you to eachother, however, i still really care/love the old one!? i think the X feels similar to me but there is too much devestation there and the new one is excellent to me. what do i do!
2006-10-31 12:54:24 · 10 answers · asked by Mg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep moving forward. Going in reverse is probably going to cause more hurt in the longrun. There are reasons you broke up. But who knows...if you and the ex are meant to be together, something drastic may happen to push you two back together. In the meantime, just go with it. What is meant to be, will be.
2006-10-31 12:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move on with the new boyfriend. You don't have any old history with the new one, and you don't have all the excess baggage with him either. I would suggest you start anew and move forward instead of looking back of what was, what could have been, what might be. We all have a tendency to look back and second guess ourselves thinking maybe if I had stayed longer, held out, things could have worked out. Most likely they would have ended up where you are now. Be happy you found someone you can say you love, and he feels the same about you. You have a new life with this new man in your life. Take hold of it and enjoy every moment without second guessing yourself.
2006-10-31 13:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your always going to have a place for that first love in your heart. You were with him for 2 1/2 years, of course you still care about him. That is totally normal. After a while, you will notice that you can care for someone even more than your cared for that X, even if your feelings don't completely diminish for them. You will notice it not being as intense as they once were.
2006-10-31 13:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point, you have to figure out what your heart is saying and not your mind. It could be that you truly-genuinely care for the X beyond bf/gf. I think, if you have the confidence, you need to speak with the X to figure out if he feels the same way... maybe the two of you can reconcile!
2006-10-31 12:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, he's in all probability in basic terms utilising you, that's relatively unacceptable and can be very risky surprisingly if he's eye-catching with different females. I incredibly think of the final element to do it to drop him like a undesirable habit and circulate on. he will basically proceed to interrupt your heart. there are a great sort of fish interior the sea. My godmother used to tell me this tale while i might have a heartbreak: there's a chicken in africa that sits interior the tree and waits for different male birds to return to the backside of the tree and dance for her. She finally chooses the final dancer. this is how we as women people must be. do no longer take crap from every person, espcially while it is composed of your love. in the event that they at the instant are not keen to handle you like a queen and placed you on a pedastal like that chicken in africa...they at the instant are not properly worth some time.
2016-11-26 21:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to listen to your heart if you really feel the way you think you feel about him you gotta see if there is still some love for one another because the way you described seemed as if yall were inseperable so maybe you should give him a try
2006-10-31 12:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by mickeymousebaby09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something tells me there is a lot more to this than what you are sharing with us. Are there children involved? That complicates things a lot - there's a lot more than meets the eye here, Read your question from the perspective that you are out here reading it and we don't know you.
2006-10-31 12:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a headache. No offense but you sound like all the girls I've ever dated. I bet you picked little fights with him so he wouldn't want to be close to you huh? Shameful.
2006-10-31 12:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I said it before and I'll say it again EX means to exit out. Stay with the new guy.
2006-10-31 12:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me
2006-10-31 12:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Reivax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋