Is it abnormal to not have a "serious" boyfriend until u get into college? Some of my peers think it is ok and others ask me whats wrong with me? All i am gonna say is i have a great personality and can be really funny and (in my mind) there is not something "wrong" with me, but i also know that perfection is imposible. I am just wondeirng if it is abnormal to not have a "serious" boyfriend befor goingto college?
2006-10-31 12:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by *lonely one* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not abnormal at all, and I will assume that by you putting "serious" in quotes that you've had boyfriends and/or dated. Which makes you even more normal than you think.
2006-10-31 13:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernPatriot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. Different people have their first serious boyfriend at different ages, some people don't even until after college.
2006-10-31 20:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering that I don't know anybody over 30 that is still on their first marriage...you may not want to be in such a rush. You are probably better off just waiting till you get around more mature, stable, and hopfully more responsible guys, before you get serious about anyone.
2006-10-31 20:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lonely one,
Let me tell you something, friends are okay the problem comes when men start asking for more tahn you are willing to trade and sometimes because you don't want to lose them you compromise and you join the statistics...
If you have stayed this far without a boyfriend you are confirming to your confused friends that it is possible - and girl I am sure proud of you!
Winners pull from crowds, you can only have one winner and Lonely One that is why it is only you who is alone while your friends are sexing their boys because you a a winner...watch yourself rise like an eagle!
I am trully proud of you and thanks for asking that question!
2006-10-31 20:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it's totally normal. High school is the time to get to know the other sex not getting serious with them-that's for college.
2006-10-31 20:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...um... based on what you see in high school, waiting til college is obviously, not "normal" or at least, "common", but who gives a shet. I didn't date til college and I'm happy I'm waited that long. I think it's wiser to wait til we're grown up anyway... and people dating in high school don't know shet and just deal with unnecessary drama and bullshet. So, you're fine... don't worry what others are thinking.
2006-10-31 20:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen-
There is NOTHING wrong with not having a serious relationship. All it means is that your more focused on other things, things more important to you right now that a "serious" relationship. You go girl!
2006-10-31 20:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Figneuton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not u must have not found the right person for u to even waste ur time with there is nothin wrong with u theres probably something with the guys u have been and dey arent worth wastin time
2006-10-31 20:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong w/ u! i hope u get to understand that most great guys are worth the wait. Dont let any1 get u down! its all good
2006-10-31 20:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't abnormal...it's cool as long as you're focused and not too overbearing. Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-10-31 20:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋