When a woman likes you, do you like it when she tells you her feelings for you? Or is it a turn off? Do men just enjoy the actual hunt and once a woman starts to "like you" you lose interest? Why is that?? When do you want to hear our feelings? When's the right time??
2006-10-31 12:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa R. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure about (most) guys but I think that any guy that is ready to settle down would love to have a lady be open and honest about her feelings.Its hard enough getting to know someone without alot of guessing what each other is thinking.If a guy were to get turned off by a woman being honest and sharing her feelings with him then he is definately not the guy for her.As far as when to tell him I would think that if you are feeling something then you are probably close enough to start sharing a little.Maybe start off slow with a few hints and see if you get a responce if not then maybe its not time.At least you have opened the door for more discusion later.
2006-10-31 12:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you see the love you have for him has to be at the same level coming back to you
i think love grows as you grow older you shall see and feel it and its at that moment you will understand what I'm trying to explain to you
if he doesn't feel the love that you are giving and gets turned off when you tel him that you love him he's a few nickel short of a dollar or he is not there yet. i don't know how far you are in this relationship
but if you two are meant to be together it will happen it only take time
we have been married for 17 wonderfull years and i truly believe the love we have now is that much greater then when we got married and i still enjoy earring it every day:0)
2006-10-31 13:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Aldoit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 20 and I love it when a woman tells me her feelings. There's nothing more special to me than that. I'm a romantic and it's always a turn on for me. If she starts to express feelings of love within the first month more than likely I'd run away and never look back. But if we have a lasting history together and I know that I feel the same way It makes my heart melt.
2006-10-31 12:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I perfer to do the hunting myself, but I do like to know how the woman is feeling. However, men want different things. Some look for love some look for sex only. You need to know what the man you are dealing with is looking for. If it is only sex then it's never the right time to say "I Love You".
2006-10-31 12:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Please be honest and up front with me!!
No, it is not a turn off. Could poss. be a big turn on!!
Some men enjoy the hunt, some don't. Those particular guys, are in it just for the hunt. When they catch there prey, it's over.
The right time to hear your feelings, is when you're ready to tell me!!
I'm dislike cat and mouse games.
2006-10-31 14:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by aprilsdad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 and when you get up around 40, you just do not have time for all the cuddling crap. We have other things like football, baseball and working out in the garage. If you have kids from another guy we really do not want the little undisciplined little tyrants (that we have no right on saying anything to them)sitting on our sofa, watching stupid crap.Oh and about your feelings most of us don't want to hear about them, especially if it is right after sex.
2006-10-31 12:54:59 · answer #6 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want to hear it at the point that I've known her for a little while, at the point where there's some trust and familiarity and attraction. At that point, I will melt when she tells me. Like anything important, it just takes some time for things to take root and grow.
2006-10-31 12:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? I love it! The right time is as soon as she has those feelings, and wants me to know (even if I'm not interested).
2006-10-31 12:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For her to tell would be ideal.
Far batter than the stupid mind-games that most of you still cling to.
2006-10-31 12:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 39 and we have enough crap in a day as it is so at least wait till after supper when the guy is not watching tv ..please ...and even better if you wait for the guy to ask you about your feelings
2006-10-31 12:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋