I am attracted to men but I have been hurt by them so many times that I can't trust them anymore. I'm a model that dates male models just to get their semen. You see I want to hand pick the father of my children. I guess you could kind of say that I "steal" their semen when their sleeping. I haven't gotten pregnant yet but I have been checking out this guy who's gorgeous, nice, and intelligent all I have to do now is use my womanly charms and "borrow" his semen. If I do use his semen to impregnate myself I won't make him a part of "my" child's life. I KNOW MEN AREN'T ABLE TO LOVE OR TAKE CARE OF A WOMAN AND MOST DEFFENTLY A CHILD! I'LL BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO BE A SINGLE MOM!
2006-10-31 12:40:13 · 25 answers · asked by Britney S 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Alrighty....aside from the semen stealing...let's start with the fact that you don't sound stable enough to parent anyone or anything. What if you have a son...what would you do then????? Would you tell him that he couldn't love or take care of anyone because he has a penis???? How would you feel if your son's semen was stolen by a woman who didn't want him (or you as the grandparent) to be a part of the the child's life because....she believed that because your son has a penis that he couldn't love???? What would you say to her?? What will you say to your child, when they ask you about their father..will you tell them that you are a semen nabber?? You know mental state aside....you really sound a bit cheap...instead of stealing sperm from a man due to his outward appearance...why not put your money where your mouth is and make the man completely anonymous by going to a reputable sperm bank. There you will find catalogs full of men..who have been throuroughly researched..their genetic backgrounds etc etc...because although these males may be models who is to say their grandmother or grandfather wasn't a troll...???? You know genetics are tricky... Bottom line, you sound foolish, and to make such a gross generalization about all men..is quite unfair. Get it together before you do get pregnant.
2006-10-31 12:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by prettydebutante 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like some plot on a soap opera or something. So you basically say men consider women objects; well you are proving you can go just as low as these men by treating them as objects. I mean, while they are sleeping? If a man doesnt use a condom, it's his own fault, but if you can't get them to not use a condom they must not want a kid. There are other (ethical) options; that's what sperm banks are for. Another suggestion: stop dating male models!! USUALLY, they are way too into themselves. I dated one once, and what a huge turnoff. While they are busy worrying about whether their hair looks better with or without highlights, or if their face looks better profiled from the left or right side, well real men are worrying about how they can best take care of their families, etc. There are many caring and attractive men out there. You need to see a counselor to sort out your issues, especially before bringing an innocent child into this world, no question! And obviously, if you're here asking this question, you have the feeling deep down in your gut, on a subconcious level, that what you're doing isn't right or smart.
2006-10-31 17:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by darkrose_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol wow! I normally wont answer these questions unless i think i have a pretty good answer but you have really caught my int rest. Are you a poet? This seems like something a poet would say. Anyway my advice to you is you should not keep trying at your plan! i am a mother and have a hard enough time with my husbands help. Couldn't imagine doing it alone and i dont think it is fair that you say you want to be a single parent as if it is no big deal. That is a very big assumption that you cannot possibly make not knowing what it is like to be a mother. (not that I am dogging you) also there are men out there that can be a loving husband and father. I have one maybe you cannot seem to find one because you have not looked beyond the modeling business. Also dont be so lame as to focus on having a child with a good looking smart model your child will be beautiful in your eyes anyway i hope.
2006-10-31 13:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sperm bank. It is VERY unfair that you are trying to get pregnant without the guys knowledge. I would be PISSED if I was a guy and I found out that I had a kid somewhere from some chick I slept with a few times.
Do it the right way. Plus there are a lot of diseases out there you could give "your" child by "borrowing" semen. Go to a sperm bank then you wont have to deal with ANY men.
2006-10-31 12:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of this is believable. stealing semen from sleeping guys? a gorgeous, intelligent guy who can't see through your b/s? male models that date women? any child you have will be partly the guy's whether you like it or not. and if you think no man can love or be a parent then you probably shouldn't have kids as this seems really screwed up. get a pet instead.
2006-10-31 12:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, girl you are something else! I don't think that what you are doing is wrong because at least you have a purpose in sleeping with these men. Men use us just for sex so we might as well get something we want out of the situation. If you don't want the man to have anything to do with your child then make sure he doesn't find out that you are pregnant. Be careful of getting something besides a child.
2006-10-31 12:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something incorrect with it if it incredibly is sparkling and runny - it is amazingly organic. Semen could be thick and white to sparkling and watery. yet while it has blood in it, which could be a demonstration of something from a small injury (kicked there) to a minimum of a few thing severe like maximum cancers. communicate with a doctor, ASAP.
2016-10-21 01:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by cardish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's wrong at all. I'm a guy and I know this goes on daily, men are mostly DRONES - walking sperm factories whose main purpose is to impregnate women & make babies. If a guy has sex with you, & he comes in you - he can only blame himself, not you. 'think of a penis as just like a breast nipple, by milking it you get some of the Milk of procreation - out of it - just like any other nipple.
by the way - thank you for your compliment when I answered your other question about why men don't compliment each other. I am HONORED to get a good rating from you. I always from early age, never wanted to be like most guys mentality - drones, who show no emotions, affection, dull, "grunts" - who can't neither GIVE or RECEIVE affection. Most males have an uncaring, crude, unfeeling, selfish nature - especially here in USA. they are egomaniacs & inconsiderate of others. Most guys simply CAN'T LOVE. it's that simple.
I never wanted to follow the whole macho Jock mindset, ie. drink booze, watch sports, chase women, show-off their muscles, all that male-ego S-h-i-t. I prefer to be a sensitive, emotional, caring, insightful, thoughtful & considerate man, with good manners, & respect of other's dignity & feelings - that's why I get along with everyone - from old ladies to little kids, foreigners, minorities, whatever - only I don't mix with white American average jock-guys who drink in bars while watching the NFL. & bragging about which girl they just laid - or want to get down with. - or how much $$$ they make or what car they drive.. that's not me, now or ever.
I see things & experience life in a radically different way than most American men. Most USA guys are just a "Dick on wheels" - Drones - to put it mildly. they never LOOK WITHIN THEMSELVES & they never get it right about people in general. Society molds them in the wrong direction. I want to be different & I am different.
Anyhow, I am honored by your rating & that someone like yourself approved my answer.
With every good wish,
Blackbird
2006-10-31 14:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not really that bad if you have the guys permission, but if you dont it kinda is,and it seems like you have a case against a couple of men, but your taking it out on all men and you really shouldn't. There could actually be a good guy out there willing to know how to take care of a woman and kids so plz dont say all men, because mine is a good one who does take care of his kids, and me.
2006-10-31 12:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jay Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With this attitude, I don't think you are ready to become a Mom. And if he finds out that's what you did and he knows he is the father. He has all legal rights to that child
2006-10-31 12:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋