for real like this guy ok i am datting him but were also like bestfriends... anyways i jus feel like nothin i do is right sometimes an im am nothing but nice to him he is very inscure...
im jus not sure what i should do jus need a lil advice.... he never makes plans grr i always pick.. he thinks im hidding things im not grr... hes made it clear im not his girlfriend but gets pissed if i am friends wit alot of other guys i dont get it....... sorry jus venting anything would help i think lol an happy halloween
2006-10-31 12:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump the nut
2006-10-31 12:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds very insecure. First thing to do is tell him what its doing to you. You dont want to try to accommodate and ease his fears by changing who you are and walk on eggshells the duration of the relationship because that will only make it worse. Its not healthy if he cant trust you and vice versa. He needs to resolve this insecurity by talking to someone or even a professional. It all falls back on you - how much do you take until enough is enough!
2006-10-31 20:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by etile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to back off and let him grow up a bit. He sounds very insecure, and from the tone of your note, it sounds like you have the makings for an abusive relationship here.
Find someone who will treat you better.
2006-10-31 20:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are "friends". Then you should sit down with him and tel him exactly how you feel. Only two things can happen from that... He will either not care. In that case... who wants to date a jerk? (LEAVE HIM) or he will listen and maybe start changing.(possible) Don't hold it all in it will only make things more difficult for you.
2006-10-31 20:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by JaNa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. Define your relationship with him. Decide forst what it is you want and tell him. If you want to be only friend, if you want to dat him and other people, or only date him.
Honesty and communication will be what saves you and saves hurt feelings. be clear on what you want and find out what he wants.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 20:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest going back 2 being friends, but not if u really like like him. This one is taugh, just explain 2 him that u dont know wat 2 do and ask him if he can help. Good luck, i hope it all works out
2006-10-31 20:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good enough for whom? Don't let this guy dictate your self worth. If he don't appreciate the things you do for him, Stop doing them.
2006-10-31 20:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure one thing that you are doing fine is putting up with this FRIEND! Tell him to shape up!
2006-10-31 20:44:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to relax, gurl! keep it 2gether
2006-10-31 20:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋