my friend, her nickname is gnome, is movin in less than 2 weeks to someplace in VA that is 8 hrs. away. i'm a boy and shes a girl(both 13). I hav this friend that went out with her and he broke up with her about 3 weeks ago. when i talked to her after the break up, she said, "i'd ask you out, but i dont wnt to get too attached when i move". so know we've just been talkin too each other like we normally do and she knows i still love her ( a little more thanshe loves me). My friend who broke up with her dared me to kiss her after school, after he asked her if she would care (she said probly not. Is there anything i can say to her to give her a hint? and when should i do it?
2006-10-31 12:35:27 · 14 answers · asked by jimmy f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look you are both just 13. That doesn't mean you don't have feelings. Of course you do. But stuff like this happens, and we all go through times in our life when we have to part from somebody we love. She has to make the move with her family, so that's settled, but it isn't going to be the end of your world, and you shouldn't say anything to her to make her feel bad.
Be happy that you met her and shared some time together. I'm old enough now to have grandkids your age, but I still remember 13, and my heart took a few knocks then too. There was this one boy, Brian Davis. The only reason I remember his name is because his sister Jean was my best friend. One day Jean told me that her family was planning to immigrate to Australia. Two months later they were gone, and I lost my best friend and my boyfriend on the same day. But in any case, your girlfriend is only moving 8 hours away, not thousands of miles. You can keep in touch by phone (but computer is better, because you wont be running up huge phone bills lol.)
You just need to remember, though, that she will be pretty busy getting settled into a new school, and making new friends of both sexes. Remember too, that when you really care about somebody, it's about thinking of that person more than yourself, so you wouldn't want to do or say anything that will make her feel uncomfortable about something that is going to happen anyway Tell her that you really wish her the best of luck in her new home and new school, that you'll miss her, and you'd like very much to keep in touch with her. She'll like you a lot for that.
If you are still f riends a few years from now, perhaps you may some day meet again. If you don't it will be because she, or you, or both of you have moved on. That can happen too. It's just another part of life. But you never forget your first love, and if that happens, some day in the future you will smile to yourself and think "I wonder whatever happened to "gnome" I hope she has a good life. I am sure she will be thinking the same about you. But for now, just concentrate on being friends, and helping her to feel comfortable about moving to a new place.
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2006-11-01 01:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until it's almost time for her to leave and then say something like "There's only one thing I regret...I may never get to kiss you now that you are leaving." Then see if she gets the hint and wants to kiss you good bye. If not, that's ok. Lots of times two people become more attracted after they've been apart. Just be a good long distance friend. It may work out after a while...Good Luck!
2006-10-31 12:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am girl and im 13 too... if i were i would want it to kinda be a moment for just the 2 of u so find a area in ur school that doesnt have millions of ppl walking .Write her a letter saying u want her to meet u there between classes and tell her u love her and just do it..
2006-10-31 12:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by chicka_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give the long distance thing a try? Me and my boyfriend have been going out 8 1/2 months, and like half of it's been long distance, but we are both still very much in love.
2006-10-31 12:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a MOM:
Son, You're only 13 years old! Stop worrying about relationships and enjoy your childhood. Paint, play sports, hang out with your guys friends, read books, ride your bike....Don't kiss girls!!! They carry germs, they might give you German measles!!! And they bug you.
Girls are going to be annoying you for the rest of your life but this is your only chance to ignore them. Just Be a kid.
2006-10-31 12:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ayliann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to have one last fling before she moves. Go to a movie, or some sort of game together. Talk, tell her how much you'll miss her, ask her to right, then calmly go for it. Good luck!
2006-10-31 12:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by perfectlypreppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before she moves, kiss her pasionatley and tell her how much you love her, if she wants to keep a long distant thing going you guys can, but i wouldnt recomend it, or you can just move on, but tell her how you feel or you might regret it forever.
2006-10-31 12:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just going to get your heart broken if you pursue her for the next two weeks.
2006-10-31 12:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! shes moving, so this might be the only chance u get. I hope it all goes well:-)
2006-10-31 12:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋