I am a freshman and I am a guy. I have known this girl for 1 month that goes to the same high school as I go to. I don’t have her for any of my classes so I only see her after school, in the hallways and before school sometimes. I met her through instant messaging and it happened to go to the same high school. I am a very shy person so when I see her in the hallways all I tell her is hi and that’s it. I never talk to her about anything else because I am so nervous that I just say hi and I leave right away. Through instant messaging I talk to her more and she talks to me also. I really like her so I asked her out and she said no because she said that she didn’t know me well. I told her if we could still be friends and she said yes. The thing is that I want her to know me better but the problem is that when I see her in the hallways I am so shy that I try to avoid her and pretend I didn’t see her. I think as if she is more than me because she is skinny and I am a little overweight. I want to hang out with her during lunch and after school but I am scared to even pass close to her because I think that she will embarrass me or make fun of me. I really like her but this shyness is keeping me back. Please tell me what should I do to talk to her and not get nervous and if I do hang out with her what should I do so I don’t get rejected and embarrassed. I do have the opportunity to talk to her during lunch but I just don’t have the courage to go to her. What should I talk to her about.
2006-10-31 12:35:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know if the girl is reserved? if she is, you still have a a chance. if she's not. when that hint she told you she should know you better means i don't like to date you.
if that's the case, go hang out with her. don't show your that interested. be discreet on your actions. girls like mysterious motives. trust me. heh!
wait and don't be agressive. remember, you are just FRIENDS.
2006-10-31 12:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 21:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ithink u shud at least try 2 sit wit her at lunch. 4 exanple try sayin 'is this seat taken' or 'do u mind if i sit' and when ur talkin 2 her try 2 b interesting and b funny cuz a girl loves it when guys make them laugh and about the overweight i think u shud go 2 the gym and eat healty and cut down candy and fast food. and after u eat anything do somrthing like walk cuz if u just put food in ur body and not engage in sum activities its like puting gas in a car and parkin it SO GOOD LUCK AND LUV YA LOTS!!!
2006-10-31 12:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be in a hurry. Try to be friends with her. Find out what her interests are. From ther you can start.
2006-10-31 12:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask how here day is or what she's learning bout..r hav u seen this show or movie or do u like this song...something that u would talk to ur friends about
2006-10-31 12:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by lize 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try writing her a letter like you did here you're good at it.
2006-10-31 12:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think as her as a friend and talk to her about her what she likes, dislikes that sort of stuff.
2006-10-31 12:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by smalzimbarry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋