well, i really want a bf! and no its not because i want to look good and unavailable infront of others....i just really want 1!! every1 everywhere says im really pretty smart sweet funny and pretty much perfect(im not bragging i promise!!) and im friends with tons of guys and about 75% (no doubt!) have crushes on me but i dont feel that way about them.......i kind of want some advice...the guys i do like kindof act like they like me but im not sure whether they do or not...is every1 else just too afraid 2 approach me?? what do i do?? i really want a bf..and no stupid answers please!!!!
2006-10-31 12:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by classychick06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would totally approach the guy i like if our social status didnt show every1 we were mortal enemies!!! even if he does like me...because of our reps...hed deny it!!! no matter how much he liked me!!
2006-10-31 12:40:09 · update #1
First of all (although this doesn't seem like your intention) NEVER try to get a boyfriend for the title of having one
You cant try to get a boyfriend. they have to just.....come to you (not phisically COME to you...) The best guys come through fate....even if your probably just gonna be with him for a month.
2006-10-31 12:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a really close friend in the bunch. One that will not break a promise? If so, ask him? Make him swear to tell the truth and keep it to himself. It may help to find out what they are feeling. Sometimes the guys are afraid to loose you as a friend if it doesn't work out or the group may not be the same if one of them dates you. Whatever the reason you could come out and ask them when you're togeter, hey anyone know any cute, nice guys that would go out with me? That might jolt them a little. But, if they are friends they should help you out.
2006-10-31 12:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look for someone you're compatible with. The looks and money really don't mean a thing. Many guys with great looks and lots of money will treat a good woman like a dog. Make sure it is someone you like and are confident that he likes you the same. Don't settle for someone just because you have no one right now. He'll show up in time.
2006-10-31 12:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may appear unapproachable to the guy you want. The best thing you can do is approach the guy you like, be blunt, just hand him your phone number and say "I would like you to call me....tonight".
Always ask him to promise to call you, by doing this, if he fails to call, then he will feel bad about not calling you.
2006-10-31 12:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want one really bad, you'll never get one. You have to stop looking, let the guys come to you, the relationship that happens naturally is the best relationship.
2006-10-31 12:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid question so stupid answer, maybe you should aproch the person you like an make a move?
2006-10-31 12:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Preeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just tell the dude you like that you like him, and see what he says. If he doesn't like you back, then atleast you tried; right?
2006-10-31 12:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready for a bow you will know it's time./
2006-10-31 12:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are all that than pick a guy and get it over with
2006-10-31 12:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋