I have prayed for two years, and he has not came back to me. I mean, I miss him so badly and he hit me because I lost my temper, but I was foolish because he told me a while back he would hit a girl if she keep hitting him. That's what happened. Making excuses for him, PLEASE! Plus he is not saved and when people are not saved they are LIBEAL to do whatever without looking back. I forgive him, the next TIME a guy hit me I am calling the COPS straight up. It was wierd. When we got into a arguement and I hit him, I saw a vision. It's like he wasn't even sitting beside me in the car. I had a vision that I keep hitting him and he stated "Stop F***ing hiting me..," and I keep doing it anyway and the next thing I know he took his hand and hit me on the head. Then I shook my head because I was scared about that vision. I stopped and looked at him. The next vision I had was me standing in the park looking to my left and he I saw myself pregnant. That scared me. I am still somewhat a virgin.
2006-10-31 12:32:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
god answers all prayers. but it's not always with a yes. your vision is god's answer. your man will not change the way he treats you. it is best that you cut loose from him because he will just hurt you more. do you want to be pregnant and left with no choice but to stay with a man who abuses you physically and emotionally? i know it is hard to let go of someone you love. it doesn't take a day or a week or a month. it takes a lot of time. but you will recover, trust me. you shouldn't stop praying. you should start listening to god's answers. don't wait for the answer that you want because you won't get it. god knows what is best for you. i hope you'll listen but the decision is yours.
2006-10-31 12:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing i need to say is, there is no such thing as a 'somewhat' virgin... you either are, or you are not... if there is any doubt, then you are not a virgin...
now, the moment you hit some one, you are inviting being hit...
on a side note, if i was dating a girl, and she hit me, i would warn her not to do that again... if she kept it up, i would stop the car (since you said you were in a car at the time), and tell her to get out befor i force her to get out...
i would get out aswell, and i would tell her that if she even considers hitting me again, i wont let her in the car again, and then we would continue the 'conversation' while on the side of the road, outside of the car...
i'm rather harsh when it comes to abuse, in any sence... when i'm pushed (in an abusive way) i will push back twice as hard reguardless of what's being said or done...
if i ended up having to leave her on the side of the road, i'd make sure she had some cash (for the bus or a cab), and i'd make sure she could call a cab, or some one else for a ride...
2006-10-31 12:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so funny. How can you be somewhat a virgin? Don't answer that. If you are saved then you know that prayer works. He might not come when you need him but He is always on time. Besides if you've prayed for two years and God hasn't put you guys back together yet, either it's not time or He has something better for you.
2006-10-31 12:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by curiouspie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing a guy can do to you is to physically abuse you. You are battered physically as well as emotionally. You should be with somebody who will love and cherish you.That's what's being in a relationship is all about. Respecting one another is very important if you want to keep anybody. Our fears are sometimes manifested in our dreams. Make sure you take care of yourself so your dream won't come true, if you know what I mean. With regards to you not praying. What's important is you are aware of not praying and you feel bad about not doing it. You don't just pray when you need something, you also pray when you appreciate the little things that come your way.
2006-10-31 12:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miss Depressed you are an outright commedian or serioulsy need help! I couldn't help laughing at your lines.
Why do you miss a man who hit you? Whats wrong with you? That is not you type. It's okay to lose you temper, but it os not okay for a man to hit a woman, i don't care the excuse!
Real men don't fight women, it's just not worth it! But you want a man that hits you Lady, think again.
If you have a pet dog, and he is holding a bone, if you hold a juicy piece of lamb chop, he will drop that bone before you can say Bush, and jump for the chops...
You are holding on to a bone, and God wants to give you a lamb chop..the choice is yours..stay with the bone and the chop will go to another..
Move on, there are enought fich in the ocean ,not just the ones that bite...
Good luck
2006-10-31 12:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are obsessing. Obsessing isn't healthy for your mind or your body, not to mention your follow through. Get over it. You can if you want to. It takes time but that time begins when you stop obsessing over a BAD relationship. There are a ton of guys out there and some of them are worth keeping. Until you get your head on straight you won't be stable enough to attract a good man. We attract people who are like our emotional and mental self. If you want a good man then become a good woman. Until you stop obsessing you will not heal. Do it for you. If you choose not to then you choose to stay in the emotional trap you are in because believe, your grief will continue with or without him.
2006-10-31 13:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray all you want, but that is not the point of prayer, to help you get back with your old boyfriend.
Visions??? Go see a doctor.
2006-10-31 12:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you somewhat of a virgin?!?!?!
What you described is not healthy at all. Maybe you should seek some guidance/help for the physical abuse and the thoughts that you are having. I'm sorry you are dealing with this
2006-10-31 12:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhat?? sorry either you are or you aren't .
If he hit you, why do you want him back? I think you have issues love, and i'm not being mean. anyone who wants an abusive partner back has some real problems.
I think this is more cathartic, than a question.
2006-10-31 12:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by siamesegoth2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl... let it go... you need to go see a shrink. Look at how obsessed you are with this....
No one her is going to tell you what you want to hear. He's not coming back. There's no magic word or potion to fix this. There's nothing that will change this situation.
Move on. It's hopeless.
2006-10-31 12:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋