if you still have some leftover feelings for an ex would that be enough to keep you from going out with another guy? I'm talking about 3 months now being broken up, so it's not like its recent or anything.
2006-10-31 12:31:35 · 26 answers · asked by stickyfingaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i just noticed how badly i phrased this I'm a guy lol just wondering about this girl it seems like she has feelings for me but she seems reluctant to start a relationship.
2006-10-31 12:35:44 · update #1
oh and the guy was her first bf and they dated for 3 months this summer so makes sense she has a special place in her heart for him right?
2006-10-31 12:37:18 · update #2
personally i wouldnt but every ones different... i know your prolly sick of hearing that but its true. if she was with her ex for a long time she may feel she still has a commitment to him. She just need somemore time. Give it to her and when shes ready shell realize that what she needs is right in front of her. You!
2006-10-31 12:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how long I was w/ the ex. I was w/ my ex for a year, dated a guy a week after we broke up, which was my mistake, honestly. Took me a year to get over the ex enough to actually look into a 'relationship' with someone else. 3 months isn't so bad, the girl should be able to date, but it depends per person... otherwise, claiming we're not over an ex is the easiest and best excuse out of dating someone we don't want to date.
2006-10-31 20:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd still go out with another guy, cause the leftover feelings is for an ex right? If I got back together officially with the ex because of the leftover feelings then I'd be true to him.
2006-10-31 20:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I wont date until i feel I'm completely over the ex. I don't think it would be fair on the next guy if I did. Leftover feelings can cause problems in a new relationship. But that's just me.
Hope things workout for you.
xx
2006-10-31 20:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by the star fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how strong those leftover feelings may be. If I still care a lot it would not be fair to become involved with someone else, so I would wait until my heart is healed. The length of time has nothing to do with it, but the depth of the emotions is what really counts.
2006-10-31 20:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's on a rebound..Did he break up with her?..If he did and he doesn't want her back then shes probably mourning him. I would say that if there was a chance that he wanted her back she just might go. Now if it was her that broke up with him then she might just be on the defensive because of something that might of happened in the relationship. If it was mutual then like I said before its a rebound thing and it might not last between the two of you. So my advice to you is , take it very slllooowww! If you like each other then theres no harm in dating, just be cautious.. Good luck 3 months is not that long after a break up..if you really liked the person.
2006-10-31 20:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that easy to get out of a past relationship... Little by little you can do it... Some do it fast , some keeps on lingering,, it depends on how you cope it up...Its like saying, you could not change the world in one day. Yes, your leftover feeling for an ex keep you from going out...but keep on trying....but pls don't be vulnerable doing so....think wisely.
2006-10-31 20:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny i broke up wit my ex like 7 months ago n im still regretting it sometime its like the other person is cool an i have fun wit them but its not the same but once u find the right person it wont matter u wont second guess urself fallow ur heart :) its never wrong... the other person might be so make sure they feel the same good luck an its only normal to miss an ex
2006-10-31 20:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things aren't going anywhere with your ex, and you don't plan on them going anywhere. so going out with another guy is one of the best things you can do to get yourself over your ex. as soon as you start thinking about the new guy a lot, your leftover feelings for your ex will start dissipating, or at least you'll start thinking about him less often.
2006-10-31 20:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by King 0f N0 Pantz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women go out to get over there ex. or they do it to see how they really feel about their ex, or it could be that we are trying to make the ex jealous. sometimes it depend how the woman feels about the man. If she really loves him and she broke up with him it most likely she is dating to get find out how she feel or to get rid of the feelings for that man. just wait it out and see what happen don't do anything just let it take its course.
2006-10-31 20:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by rochelle29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋