I'm in love with someone and he's in love with me. I'm at the point now where I don't want to date for the sake of it but I know this can't go anywhere because I'm a Christian and it's against my beliefs to marry someone who doesn't have the same morals and belief system as me. The problem is I know it's going to hurt both him and me; I don't want to just cut him out of my life because he's been a wonderful friend. But everytime I see him I can't stay away from him.
2006-10-31 12:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pray about it and after that follow what you feel. If you sincerely pray for guidance then what is mean to happen will happy. You are in each other's lives for a reason, it is no coincidence. And just because you maynot take your relationship to the next level doesnt mean that you cant still be friends.
2006-10-31 12:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would want to part with someone you love because of your beliefs? I think GOD would want you to have that special person in your life no matter what their beliefs are. There is a reason why certain people come into our live's and you should appreciate the good people and not push them away.
2006-10-31 20:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by rexy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just have to give the time, time, like you just can't stop loving someone from the night to the morning. Its too hard, you have to have patience, to give the time time, you just find somebody else. Its hard trust me, it took me so long to get over the person that I used to love and That is because I prayed so much. so do that. And I also found somebody better than him.
2006-10-31 20:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over him is to find someone new, if you know you can't marry him, then he's obviously not "the one" for you. So just stay friends with him, and you'll find love elsewhere.
2006-10-31 20:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ariella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same position,but we both believe in the same thing.the only reason why we broke up is because he hits girls....but i still love him.i think the only way to get over him is time,that's it time,yes it will hurt for awhile but someday it will be over.
2006-10-31 20:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just focus your attention to other things...but why you have to forget someone whose been a good part of your life.....You know you dont have to forget him but atleast be friend with him......
2006-10-31 20:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by simoune s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really believe in this love, then choose a religion that suits you so. i know the person i like goes to a wayy different church than i do, but that doesn't mean i won't date him. i think if you and your love believe in Christ and all his good deeds, that's really all you need.
2006-10-31 20:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
but thats just wrong if u wont marry/date the personu love cus of ur religion!! come on woman! 21st century! ppl do it eveyday! if u love him, GO FOR IT.
2006-10-31 20:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dragonfly :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time heals all wounds. However it sound like you don't want to let him go. So don't.
2006-10-31 20:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by curiouspie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a choice. You have to get him out of your life. You'll get over him.
2006-10-31 20:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋