I met this guy about 2 months ago.Since I saw him I felt attracted to him.I didn’t know how he felt about me until I started to flirt with him and he flirted back.I went to his place to study a couple of times.One of these times he asked me out for a couple of drinks,we had a good time.The next Saturday I asked him out.We got drunk.He told me how sexy he though I was and I told him how attracted I felt towards him.I didn’t wanted to do the 45 min drive back to my place,so he told me I could crash at his place.We started kissing and end up having sex.He told me a couple of times that this is not what he asked me to come over for.The next morning I left the place without saying goodbye,I felt like a cheap whore.He still is very helpful and considerate towards me ,but he doesn't flirt anymore.It pains me to think that because of my behavior that one night I might have loose a good guy.I am afraid he doesn’t want me anymore.I wonder if he still likes me or was it just a one night stand?
2006-10-31 12:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he thought that u didnt want to have sex and he made u and now feeling guilty for it, u sound like u r good friends ask him. only he knows whats in his mind. just casually ask him what happened.
the fact that u went with out saying bye might make him feel that u think it was a mistake. if u really like him tell him what it meant to u and se what he says. atleast u know where u stand
2006-10-31 12:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becasue you left without saying a word, you are the one that made the situation weird. Suck it up and talk to the guy, or always wonder what could have been.
Oh, you only qualify as a cheap whore when you can't remember his name the next morning.
2006-10-31 20:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't people talk to each other anymore about these things or do they just ask total strangers on this site. Our opinions can help, maybe, but a good idea is to talk to him about it if he is that important to you.
2006-10-31 20:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a one time thing. Don't put yourself thur hell about this, cause if this person was going to be a special part of your life you would not be regretting this.
I hope you guys practice safe sex.
2006-10-31 20:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a heart-to-heart with this guy. Tell him how you feel and find out how he feels. Then you can decide together whether you want to be friends, lovers, or stop seeing each other altogether. But you can't do that if you don't TALK!!!!
2006-10-31 20:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should have stayed for breakfast.
Leaving without saying goodbye would strongly suggest that all you wanted was the sex.
2006-10-31 20:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you are going to feel badly about this act,it will go away with time,it is not to late to learn from your one night mistake,it does not make you a bad person.we all do things that we regret and we learn from them so,you know already that this thing you did made you feel bad about yourself,you are liable not to do it again.
2006-10-31 20:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be all in your head. May be he just does not want a relationship. Back off either way
2006-10-31 20:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may have just been the breaking of sexual tension. Doesn't mean he likes you any less, the animalistic desire for conquest is just gone. (Not always a bad thing)
2006-10-31 20:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sean P 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes guys dont want it if its too easy. Its strange but true.
2006-10-31 20:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by us citizen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋