I met this guy online, and we've been talking for a long time..about 8 months.This guy is so in love with me, he believes I am the one
he was waiting for,for his whole life..He wants to have a baby with me,.We have similar interests,etc..We do the same things, etc. The only problem is, he lives in another country. I didnt care either though. He was gonna send me a ticket and he wants me to live with him there.. I was gonna do this.
Then I started having dreams,bad dreams about snakes.Which to me, means he was deceiving me.I also met this guy online..another guy, he is very much into me..and we are gonna meet within days. He lives about 2 hours away from me,it's a far cry from 9 thousand miles.. But the thing is, I feel bad about the other guy. He is 29. He's telling me, that this is his last chance to believe in pure love..He said it's his last chance to do the right thing with a girl.
I feel bad,cause he thinks I'm gonna come with him still.I dont know what to do.Someone help.
2006-10-31 11:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh, YEAH!
2006-10-31 11:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, back up a second here.
You met guy online and he's in love with you? Wants to have a baby with you? Lives in another country? His last chance to be in "pure love"? (Whatever the hell that is).
There are so many things wrong with this, I don't even know where to start. But the briefest thing I can say is that if you're interested in someone else, you're not in love with the first guy. And, if you've never met him face to face, then every single thing he's said is a lie. He's playing you for some reason.
2006-10-31 19:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by wineboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kinda weird. If he wanted to meet you (the guy in the other country) he'd come to see you not the other way around. If he's telling you this is the last chance to believe in true love, I don't know I think he's got issues...I use to have a bf like that and believe me, not good. At least not the type I wanted for myself. I'd say stick to the guy that's closer but always be very careful - needless to say it can be dangerous.
2006-10-31 19:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. It sounds like he is a desperate loser.
By the way, I just don't get the whole falling in love thing over the internet!
You can be whomever you wish on the internet. You can make out to be someone your not. How can you say that you want to have babies with someone after only having internet correspondence?
Leave your computer - meet real people!
2006-10-31 19:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Brad NZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess the best thing would be to meet the guy closer to you and see how things go, another country is a wide distance.
2006-10-31 19:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by chrissyinauburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to meet these guys and talk to them in person and then decide. you should not choose the man who lives nearer. That is not fair... and you will probably regret it. Distance shoudl have no impact on love.
2006-10-31 19:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion yes it is the same as cheating for real, especially if there are feelings involved. the fact is that his statement about his last chance is crap he is just trying to push you into it so he gets what he wants.
2006-10-31 19:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you an Internet whore?How many guys can you string along?I would keep one guy on line and one in "real life".
2006-10-31 19:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its does count as cheating and be careful with guys you meet in the internet!
2006-10-31 19:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just dress your computer up in a tuxedo and marry it.
2006-10-31 19:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋