My bf and i have been together a year have a tirbulent relationship sometimes breaking up three times in one week over piety arguments over anything getting back together and breaking up all the time. Jealousy attacks on both sides and bad arguments where things get thrown.We are both in college which does not help.We are both polar opposites with everything!We are both stubborn and he likes to mess with me to get me mad and both of us has a temper. I have always kind of liked his friend John to begin with but since he was bit heavy i went out with my bf.John and i are good friends and i know he likes me and he is always there for me to talk to recently i had a pregnancy scare and my bf would not pick up his cell phone and John took me to doctor.I have feelings for John and now he is a good guy and i see potential in him he is smart and starting his own buisness /responsible.Will this make thing akward if i do?
2006-10-31 11:27:43 · 12 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell Ya! You will ruin both relationships with your boyfriend. Don't do it!
2006-10-31 11:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by dinamita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it will cause a lot of problems. It will probably end their friendship and end any chance of you and your bf ever getting back together again. But if John is a great guy and he is willing to risk losing his friendship then I'd say go for it. But be honest with your boyfriend from the beginning and have both of you talk to him about how you feel and what you want to do. Don't let him find out through a third party.
2006-10-31 11:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by D P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't leave him for his friend. You should work on the arguments and the little stuff but if you feel that it is not worth it then just leave him alone all together. But one thing you should never ever do is sit and talk about your problems with his friend. Because at the end of the day they will still be cool and you will be the one looking like a slut. Just do not have any ties with either of them
2006-10-31 11:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? If you have been in such a stormy relationship for so long, I would urge you to break it off and just chill out for a while. You don't need to go from man to man. And in this case, you will certainly damage their friendship if you do. Spend some time learning more about who you are and then start to date again.
2006-10-31 11:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need time by yourself to figure out what you really want. If the relationship with your BF was wonderful would you be thinking about his friend? Part from your bf, be single for a while to know yourself. But I wouldnt advise going out with the friend b/c it would be awkward for everyone. You know those guys would talk the guy talk about you.
2006-10-31 11:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive left my x-boyfriend for his uncle before, it was definitely for the better. If you see that the relationship you are in is causing you tons of fighting, stress, and grief, you need to get out. First try calmly communicating, or talking about your problems. But if that doesnt work, and the guy is hopeless to deal with, definitely leave him. The other guy totally sounds better!!
2006-10-31 11:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the switch. It's awkward and you don't come out looking good, but you are ending something that is bad and moving onto something that appears to be good for you. And it's what you wanted in the first place.
2006-10-31 11:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Omni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be fair to John and to yourself may want to be single first then try a relationship with John afterwards.
2006-10-31 11:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Darwin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse, it would be awkward if you began dating your boyfriends best friend. If it was meant to be, it will be. However, I wouldn't pursue it. I think before you start trying to start a new relationship, you need to get yourself together from the one you are already in, versus jumping from relationship to relationship. I
2006-10-31 11:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by prettydebutante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOuld Never Never Never
2006-10-31 11:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by MandO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋