was seeing who i thought was my dream guy, but he was full on straight away ive never felt this way, i cant stop thinking of you i want to travel with you, bla bla but as soon as he realised i liked him, and a few weeks of sex he was gone he put his face back on internet dating and later found out he had been chasing girls and threatening one, i feel so scared and a fool as all this was happening when with me, he wouldnt take my calls and changed his phone number i had to go to his house re a important matter i was so upset and i said what went wrong this was b4 i found out about other women he said i contacted him too much i dont understand when he use to contact me all the time and leave me loving messages, what happened here i havent heard from him in ages. did i get used im so sad and dont believe i will trust again, as my exhusband left me for a man and now this.
2006-10-31 11:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by sexygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa sister...Yes unfortunately is would appear that you have been used. That jerk will get his up and comings soon enough this I can assure you. Seems that you've had one hell of a roller coaster ride dearie, but fear not everyone has their axes to grind and think of the brite side atleast you got through it! Now you have a gage to judge men by. Unfortunately you may succumb to trust issues, there's no avoiding that at this point. Just realize that there are some good men left out there and one has your name written on his heart. Hang in there dearheart and with time and some serious You time to mend (treat yourself to some severe pampering) that Mr. Right will be beside you soon enough. Good Luck~!
2006-10-31 11:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It simple you got to serious to fast. Happen all the time. If you use the "LOVE" word to soon a man will bolt faster that a hare being chase by a wolf. I had a friend have a lady tell him that she loved him after two weeks of seeing each other. It was romance, not love that was sending messages. It seems to me that you are not looking at the situation straight. Also calling until he change his number is almost stalkerish. After that a guy will never call back. You should have just called left a crying message and left it at that. If he came back, he will come back. Just make sure it not for a booty call. The truth is if the man used you, then he already on to his next target. Look for a guy who will respect you more, and carry yourself with a little more respect then a guy will more than likely stay with you. Listen to what the guy is saying, not what is said.
2006-10-31 19:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by wellofworlds02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u made a mistake by sleeping with this jerk, but stop saying u where used it makes it worse, this guy just wants one thing from women and once he gets it he moves on he is a sexual no-mad who will get his eventually---so move on and dont sleep with a guy right a way if your going to get this upset--if the guys sticks around long enough with out sex then he cares about u
2006-10-31 19:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT A MINUTE...your husband left you for a MAN???
You can't possibly be that bad in bed or in cooking....no one is, whats the REAL issue here?
2006-10-31 19:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will trust again --- but they will have to earn it
dont call or see this guy again he was only after sex
2006-10-31 19:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya u been played
quit putting out
2006-10-31 19:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him or get revenge!
2006-10-31 19:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shea Butta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U KNOW WHAT JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM.
2006-10-31 19:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋