The guy I met at the library and I had our date yesterday, a day early. We had a really good conversation, and I really liked the way he seemed interested in whatever I had to say. As our date was ending, I asked him if he wanted to meet again, he said sure and walked me out to my car. He asked me what my weekends were like, and I asked him if he was doing anything on Friday. He plays basketball Friday nights and said he'd call me. He didn't say when, just that he would call me. He gave me a hug and said goodnight. Is there a certain amount of days I should wait before calling him if he doesn't call me? I am interested in him and don't know if this will just be a friendship or something more, but I don't know if him saying he'll call me is just his way of blowing me off.
Thanks for your answers!
2006-10-31 11:19:51 · 10 answers · asked by Emily O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't call him. He knows your number and if he's interested, he will call you. Don't start chasing him, guys like to do the chasing so, be patient and wait for him to call.
2006-10-31 11:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is as long as you can wait. that is the same with a guy that i like. he said he would call me and i waited a week before i finally called him. i was always thinking about him and just couldn't get him our of my head so i called him and he said that he was glad that i called him because he lost my phone number, but we got together that weekend and that was a month ago. we are still together and i am glad that i called him.
2006-10-31 11:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by goof ball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre int rested call him. I am not a firm believer in the 3 day rule. Call him if he doesnt seem int rested you will have your answer. Its only been one date. He could have lost the number. I know I have taken guys numbers and said I would call and I lost the paper I had it written on or left it by mistake.If you have his number then he was int rested if he wasnt he wouldnt have exchanged numbers.
2006-10-31 11:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't hear from him in a wk then i'd call him.... and just be like what's up.. try to feel him out, but if he seems not interested like the type to be like don't call me i'll call u then keep it moving...
2006-10-31 11:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to those who waiy. give him till after the weekend the ring him maybe he is a bit shy.
2006-10-31 11:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Linda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and call him, even if you end up as just friends...what is one call going to hurt?
2006-10-31 11:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him in the next two days if he doesnt call you.
2006-10-31 11:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2006-10-31 11:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't sound like he was blowing you off. seeing as though he asked you wut your weekends were like. i think that if you really want him you should wait three days, four if you're chicken. don't be afraid to do so either.
good luck
2006-10-31 11:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if u have his # try calling him
2006-10-31 11:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by cbunbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋