My boyfriend and I met off of lavalife about 7 mths ago, and are still going strong. We now live together and I love him more than anything in the world. He works out of town, so I only see him 8 days out of the month. How do I know he isn't still looking, or has cheated on me while living in the other town. He swears he doesn't cheat and I believe him, I just really wish I could trust him more. I recently found a "adult personals" website on his computer and saw that he had accessed it only a month or so ago. He just added some girl to his hotlist from around the same city as where i live. He didn't actually write her though. What the hell is going on, and how can I get him to tell the truth about this stuff??? I wish i wouldn't have found it = (
2006-10-31 11:14:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him w/ what you found...
2006-10-31 11:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you love him and trust him then stop snooping around. Second, being that you already snooped and found this information it's going to bug you until you find out whats up. You should talk to him and ask him straight out if he still has his ad up in the personal ads. You might want to keep it to yourself that you snooped, because then he won't trust you. Just tell him you are wondering because you have removed all the ads you had up online. If he lies to you about it then you know something isn't right and you can decide how you want to proceed from there.
2006-10-31 11:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him dead on whether he still has listings on dating sites. If he says no, then dump him - he's a liar.
2006-10-31 11:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes still looking I talking to him right now!!!! Hes hot!!!!
2006-10-31 11:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl kick him to the curb...do it now...don't waste another day on this guy....Good Luck!
2006-10-31 11:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋