I contacted my ex boyfriend who I hadnt talked to for 7 months...He was happy to talk to me..We made plans to go on a date...We went to the movies..He opened the doors for me and did everything a man is supposed to do..Everything went great that night..Afterwards he wanted to take me to his apartments I said NO..Then he said well we will have to do this again sumtime..and we left with a kiss..Meanwhile 2 days passed and I heard nothing from him(which is unusual)Finally after 2 days I had to contact him.And he wasnt nice..He was disrespectful and things wasnt the same..I was making all the conversation and I asked him if he wanted to date me and hes like i dunno,everything he said was i dunno or ok...It got to where I just said **** it and left.Me and him are not talking anymore..I loved this guy and I thought he loved me..Any advice
2006-10-31 10:57:52 · 14 answers · asked by JPM Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE'S AN EXXXXXXXXXXXX!! Be grateful that you had the good sense to reject his advances after the nice date. Most likely after a romp in the hay, he would have treated you the same way he did when you called him back. He's a LOSER, send his butt back to the curb!
2006-10-31 11:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, an ex is an ex for a REASON. Maybe he just realized that whatever broke you up in the first place was still there and not going away. Or maybe he was just really sweet that night because he thought he could get you to sleep with him again. Men are dogs sometimes and maybe he was just looking for a booty call and when you didn`t give in...he was mad. You never know what was going through his mind, but I don`t think it should affect you. Just remember, he was an EX anyway, and not worth your time. Especially with his recent behavior. There are PLENTY of fish in the sea, so just take it for what it is and move on. You don`t deserve to be treated like that by any man and it sounds like you had the right idea by breaking up in the first place. If you need any help getting hooked up again, I have TONS of single guy friends who aren`t jerks like him. IM me and I`ll hook ya up! Smile and be happy that it is over and never give him a chance to do that to you again. He sounds like a total loser and you are MUCH better off without him!
2006-10-31 19:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by slipknots love slave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to hear that. But u shouldn't be. The reason he did it is because he is a pathetic, selfish, immature jerk. It's his loss. U should be happy, though. U saw his true colors before it was too late. In other words, he did u a favor. Keep your head up and u'll find the right one for u who will respect your decision to do the right thing. :-)
2006-10-31 19:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by blacklatina9108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you got treated like that. My advice is that just forget about him because all he wanted from you is sex and he dind't love you. You can find someone better than him, believe me, this has happended to me alot of times. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-31 19:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry he's a jerk...why do u like him? i know he was nice the first date but that was probably a move trying to get u back then when u didn't want to get screwed that night he got pissed...all i have to say is he's probably trying to get in your pants...
2006-10-31 19:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As harsh as it may be im sorry to say it sounds like he either wanted to get in your pants. Or is with another girl already.
2006-10-31 19:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by ManWithAPlan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest and frank, he might have just wanted to have sex that night. He may have been only looking for one thing and when you refused, that made him upset. My advice is to pray about it.
2006-10-31 19:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by sws_classic_caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Ex", being the operative word. Did you forget why you broke up in the first place? Girl, you were just a booty call.
2006-10-31 19:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was actin like that then he is so not worth the stress, find a guy who will respect ya.
2006-10-31 19:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you said no he lost all interest in you and the only reason he took you out as so he could get in your panties one last time he probably has other girlS in his life and has not been thinking about you
2006-10-31 19:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋