Would like to meet guys who are interested in women with brains even though they are great to look at, how can you get guys to notice you?
How do you get a guy to take you seriously?
2006-10-31 10:57:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you happen to find two of them, could I have one?
2006-10-31 11:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by IC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The library? I don't know the answer to be honest. You've just gotta be lucky and hope you eventually find what you're looking for. I like my partner to have brains: means I can hold intelligent conversations with them about anything. It adds another dimension to a relationship, which I enjoy. As for guys noticing you? You're a woman: guys will notice you!
Good luck. If you truly struggle, I live in Lincoln! I may be what you're looking for lol!
2006-10-31 19:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ollie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you can! : ) it depends on where you are looking for the correct type of person, bars and clubs are the worst places because people go their for fun or crap, nothing serious is ever intended. the people at bars and clubs are usually high, drunk, smelly and the crap lot, they are drunky, drunky, stinky, stinky, yucky, yucky!! you cant eve expect to hold an intelligent conversation with them or b serious about them, YUCK!, also they are usually only looking for ***, or something like that. with many std's.
instead, think of where you can meet more intelligent men -eg - the ones who dont smell of alcohol, smoke less, talk to you with the respect you deserve, treat you, have good taste and can make intelligent conversation and are in a correct state of mind- eg, a golf club, a book store/club, art galleries, a country club, sporting events, this is good because you will enrich your life as well as invite people who have a stable/ healthy life style into your own life. these are activities and interests usually more intelligent men are into. : )
as far as getting men to notice you, they will. jus educate yourself!!, take care of yourslf, b confident, look awesome, and dont go for men who are always too easy, i hate easy men they r just too easy, before being all stupid and flirty with you they probably were the same with someone else a minute ago b4 u arrived, and they dont have any thing special about them that you might like, they r jus easy. and get out with most easy girls.
please, check out the links below, they provide many women with trustworthy and helpful information on what to do and not to do on dates and in relationships, and about healthy successful dating, etc. : ) i hope this is of some use.
2006-10-31 19:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress respectfully and become more educated yourself. The ladies you see running around in skimpy clothing are often ones who think marriage and a rich boyfriend is their only way to a stable future. A lot of men with brains check those women out, but would never consider a real relationship with them.
2006-10-31 19:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny as a man, I ask myself the same thing, from a guys point of view. where can I meet ladies of substance, indepth character? Superficiallity is something I despise and yes I confess that most of my brothers think with their body instead of their brains. It's good to see that a woman ask this kind of question.
2006-10-31 19:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Andres 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually at a library or museum or art gallery or someplace like that. To get someone to notice you, try to talk to them about something they are reading, for example (as long as you aren't interrupting). Basically, express interest in them and in their interests. This doesn't necessarily mean that they will be interested in you romantically, but they will remember you.
I don't know how to get someone to take you seriously.
2006-10-31 19:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not here. The wearisome irony here is that you spell intelligent incorrectly and you employ clumsy grammar. Perhaps the reason you're not meeting these guys is because they are looking for intelligent women.
2006-10-31 19:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enrol in college or university - that's where I met loads of nice intelligent men.
2006-10-31 19:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother about getting us to take you seriously. Just get a guy who treats you right. It's worth far more.
2006-10-31 18:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ian69 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well as one of those guys i can tell you that they are out there. however i have to say that i was about 25 before i started to mature in to that. i think if you expect no less you will find that guy eventualy, good luck
2006-10-31 19:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by duncan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋