I've been dating this girl for almost a year now and she is i guess "prude" but we also don't see eachother alone much so it's hard to tell. Not many guys would say this but i mean i'm afraid of having sex too. even with a rubber and withdrawal and spermicide what if she gets pregnant? anyway i just want to show her that the pleasure is not all for the guy so i mean should i go down on her or something?
2006-10-31 10:56:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she isn't comfortable doing anything like that, DON'T DO IT.
PLEASE. i'm a girl, and i would NOT like it if a guy (even if he WERE my boyfriend) tried to please me sexually when i was not comfortable with anything like that.
i would suggest just holding her hand or wrapping your arm around her waist or something until she gets more comfortable with the idea..
hope this helps!
2006-10-31 10:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont concentrate on the obvious spot. first, kiss her, lick herb ears, kiss her neck. she might be moaning a little bit by now. undo a button or 2, kiss her breasts, if she lets you, lick,dont bite, her nipples. i dont know how much of a chance you have of doing this, but girls generally aprreciate it when guys concentrate on the whole body rather thatn the obvious. leave this spot for the last steps. and learn where the g spot is, if you dont know, find a website or go to a bookstore and get a book about howe to pleasure women. i cant tell you the rest here, of course. while you kiss her on her mouth, her face, her neck, tell her how beautiful she is and how you dream about her and the time when both of you can be together. sound corny but this crap works!
2006-10-31 11:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by cruzanglero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could, but she may not be ready for that either.
I would start with something simple: masturbate for each other, then guide the other's hand so you'll know what feels good to each other.
My advice: no intercourse until you each know the other's body really well. And don't rush... some of the best "encounters" I've had don't involve intercourse at all.
2006-10-31 11:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. You don't seem to know where she stands sexually so go ahead and find out! She may not be ready for that...she may feel that oral sex is too personal and intimate. Or she may be dying for it. She might be timid to try it but wouldn't mind if you touched her manually. You just need to talk to her :)
2006-10-31 11:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she doesn't want to do anything doesn't mean she's a "prude". Have you thought that maybe she wants to save herself for marriage?
Maybe you should sit down and actually talk to her about all this instead of trying to find ways to please her sexually.
If she wants to wait, then respect her and wait.
2006-10-31 11:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget withdrawal its a total waste of time --- if you are afraid of pregnacy use a condom and the pill
if you want to please her yes use oral sex --- it can be a lot of fun and can make her feel very good
2006-10-31 11:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...why not....Receiving is 1/2 the fun :)
2006-10-31 10:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by making out and kinda grinding together- she should be able to have an orgasm.
2006-10-31 10:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try touching her or using ur fingers...... only give oral if she is into it too. cuz that can feel much more intimate! if she has touched herself, she can show you how she likes it.
2006-10-31 11:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a truly commited and loving relationship doesnt involve..giving it up..it invovles sharing it...i think your problem is one in perception
2006-10-31 10:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋