three months...Now, you realize he is NOT the one for you...HOW DO YOU END IT WITHOUT really HURTING HIS FEELINGS???BECAUSE you both need to move on...and you can't because your involved with him...
2006-10-31 10:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to tell him. Talk it out, it's better to do it now then drag it on believe me, I've been in your shoes. If you drag it, it will just end up hurting more for the both of you. Even though you don't think it will, believe me it will. Not as bad as he will take it, but just talk. It will be hard and frustrating and scary, but again it's better to end it sooner than later.
Just talk and go from their!
Hope this helps and good luck with that! :)
2006-10-31 10:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by CallmeDave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO BE HONEST, and there is no way around it: he is going to feel hurt and confussed. Don't make the mistake of going out with someone else behind his back, that will hurt him more than the simple truth.
Don't be mean but be honest with him, if it doesn't work out it just doesn't work out and you shouldn't leave him a door open because you don't want to hurt him, hey, that's love and everybody gets hurt sometime but you get over it. It is much more difficult get over somebody lying to you or not telling you the truth about where you stand.
2006-10-31 18:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by L M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight to the face, don't pull anything! It will hurt for a day or two, then he'll realize that he is better off also....good luck!
2006-10-31 18:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a phony be real, Man I wish the rest of the world was like NEW YORK CITY in your face and real not fake and phony.
2006-10-31 18:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by D. A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way that you won't hurt his feelings..Just tell him the truth...Things just aren't working out for you and there's no way to fix it....
2006-10-31 18:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going out with him. When you ask him what's wrong, just tell him nicely.
2006-10-31 18:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋