i would love another child but my partner is not ready, i respect that he can tell me this. i want anther child now because then i can still have time for my own carea when the children are in school. i do work part time but its not the job for me. what should i do!!
2006-10-31 10:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I think you have your hands full at the moment!! It does matter what your partner thinks too because his feelings matter as much as yours. Feeling broody is part of all your hormones all over the place. Enjoy the ones you have. Don't rush it. As for a career, you have one! It's called being a mother. It is very underrated today. I learnt my greatest lessons from having my daughter... called patience. When the time is right, when they've grown up you can pursue a chosen work path and your patience and maturity will be of great benefit. Don't look too far ahead. Being a mother must not be missed. You can take on part-time work when they are both at school.
2006-10-31 11:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the child. Discuss the situation with your Partner, (does partner mean your not married?). Tell him exactly what you've told us here, and if he loves you he will understand where you are coming from. Plus think of all the sex he'll be getting whilst you are both trying to conceive.
2006-10-31 18:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by ba_pix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with your daughter at home until she is at least 1 year old. im not being judgemental here, most research these days shows that the outcomes for the child are best if you do this. after that focus on your career. if either of you is not ready for more children surely it is best if you wait until you both are. broody or not.
2006-10-31 18:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by duncan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is not much you can do if your partner is not ready yet and pushing him into it could cause problems just hold on a few months and see if you feel the same if so ask your partner again.
Good Luck
2006-11-01 06:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself another six months cuddle your baby more and the broodiness will pass, no good having another child if you push your partner away is it.
2006-11-01 04:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by twinsters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your partner maybe 2 is all he can handle why another ? more stress for all and less money to go around
2006-10-31 18:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by nora7142@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were your husband i would run......stop being so selfish do you have their collage fund all saved up if not than stop and provide for the ones you have
2006-10-31 18:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop breeding and put something else back into society
2006-10-31 18:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋