Should I?????????????

Question

Ok. Well last night I went to a movie with a friend of mine. We have been talking for awhile. I already know some of his friends and I met his mom and his sister, they both like me. Well anyway, a few weeks ago he told me that he likes me. I was flattered and I said, "Really, that's sweet." I left it at that because I had only known him for about a week. Then he asked me do I like him back. I said sure, but I liked him as a friend and not like I could like a boyfriend. Anyway, he kept asking me do I like him and after awhile it was getting annoying and I began to feel uncomfortable. So I stopped talking to him for about two weeks. Then this past Saturday I went with a friend of mine to a Halloween party( don't want to talk about that, ugh!) and I called him later that night. Then last night we went to a movie. Well at the movies he didn't try and put his arm around me or show me any kind of affection and I wasn't sure why.

I want to ask him, but then I don't want to make him feel weird and I don't want to be embarrassed. I was thinking that he might be over me and not like me anymore. But then why would he want to go to the movies with me? Oh, one of the reasons why I stopped talking to him was because he doesn't have a car or access to one and I didn't feel like being his chauffer all the time. plus he is annoying in a childish way when he is around his friends).

Answer 1

ok, well you need to ask yourself if you truly like him. If you really do than just talk to him. act like you are friends, within time he will like you again. If you keep it cool and collected he might want you back again.

Answer 2

You don't really seem to be into him...So why does it matter what he thinks?? If you do like him, then you might have scared him away by saying that you like him as a friend....Maybe he still likes you but doesn't know how you feel so he didn't want to freak you out by hitting on you....He probably said yes to the movies b/c he thought maybe you'd give him some sign that you're into him...Or he was just using you for the ride...Either way, not wanting to date him b/c he doesn't have a car seems kinda shallow....But anyway, maybe he still likes you....

Answer 3

Well it got to be something that you like about him cause u called him backed. So maybe you are the one that is not on his level. All boys act childish around their friends

Answer 4

Well, he was probally a little afraid to push his luck, you finally agreed to go out with him & had told him you liked him like a friend, so he was just going to take it slow & not run you off. Give him time, if you go out with him again, things may be different.

Answer 5

i'm no expert but maybe he got the hint that ur not in2 him like that. maybe if u finally do, u should just tell him, or talk to him and see what is going on and if u guys are still friends and what not. good luck.

Answer 6

if you want to be with him then tell him and you also have to deal with the "childish" side of him. you've already identified things you dont like about him so you should really think about it before you take it further.
Good luck

Answer 7

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Save yourself Love

Answer 8

Ok, I think that this is your life, so if you wanna ask him, DO IT. If he says yes, then its all good in the hood. If he says no, he wasnt right for you anyway. Hope everything works out!

Answer 9

i think he got the idea that you just wants to be friends
so he's just doing as you suggested by you actions
so dont worry, i think you both can have a wonderful friendship

Answer 10

Follow your heart.