its been about 8 days since i had her # and i havent called her yet.. is it too late?
2006-10-31 09:51:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK---
thanks..
I gave her a text message.
2006-10-31 10:03:00 · update #1
I was going to say 2-3 days to show real interest.. 8 days?! You can still call but do it NOW. Seriously, lol.. what are you waiting for?
2006-10-31 09:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lament 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for?
Next time call the very next day but act busy(don't talk long at all) make yourself the important one, it'll make her interested. Let her call you after that or call back in about 2-3 days. If I were you, the longest I would wait is about 3 days after getting her number. However, in this particular situation you're in, do call her NOW!!, and let her know that you've been really busy and that you're so sorry you couldn't call sooner, and then wait for her to call you..
2006-10-31 09:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by VeroGia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a bit on the late side. She probably already went through the whole fretting period wondering why you didn't call while replaying all sorts of terrible reasons in her head. If she really liked you she might still be glad that you called, but unfortunately if a guy called me this late in the game, I'd feel like I was his last resort and think he was just after a bootycall.
2006-10-31 09:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by ShaunaJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most answers here say it is not too late. If it were me - it would be soooooo toooo late. Like 7 1/2 days too late. As you waited so long, you probably aren't really interested anyway and should not call.
2006-10-31 09:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl, and whether she was just giving you her number to "play the odds" as it were..
There's really nothing to lose by calling... if she wasn't interested in the first place, then oh well... if she was interested, then by apologizing for taking so long, and offering to make it up to her can do wonders.
Good Luck... and don't ever wait 8 days again, hehe.
2006-10-31 09:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by rainsinger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's too late. Seriously. If you really liked her, text her and lie to her that you're phone just got fixed. But if she has ur number and hasn't called either, don't worry about it. Admit that you had a one-night stand. Usually one or two days at most.
2006-10-31 10:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by lizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the Damn phone and call her now you idgit
logest to wait is 4-5 days she probably already moved on
2006-10-31 09:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call her today...its not too late now but if you wait any longer things will be a little ackward. Just call her up and start up a converstaion
2006-10-31 09:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say over a week and a half would be too late, unless you're her dream guy or something, then she can wait a little longer. Hope this helps!
2006-10-31 09:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Becca M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get why people think they have to play those games. If you didn't call her the next day she won't think your serious about going out with her. She will think you think of her as an after thought.
2006-10-31 09:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋