im hella single, never really be on what i would consider a real date...talk'd to different (yet frighteningly similar) guys...and im wondering for those out there with boyfriends/husbands....how did you figure out what kind of guy you were looking for...or did u not look, not have a list and just let him come to you?
2006-10-31 09:47:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If im looking for a guy i usually look for someone that looks decent and you'll know if hes your type as soon as you guys start conversating.Just let them come to you,just go out and have fun bacause when youre not looking there looking at you for not being desperate to find a guy.
2006-10-31 09:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men like everyone else are completely different and having said that, I never really had a "type" (I'm now married). There were qualities though that I admired in a man such as intelligence and wit, creativity and good communication. I knew I was never really into sports so I guess I was never kind of into the guys that live for sport. The thing is though, whilst I admired such qualities and ideally a guy I was interested in would have those qualities (or some of them), I never really had a formula that I went by. It's only once you actually get to know someone that you realise that whilst you never had them pegged as 'your type' they actually retain some of the qualities you admire.
You might be talking to the same kind of guys (although beneath surface level they could be totally different from each other) because you hang out with people who have mutual interests. The most important lesson I think you can learn from a relationship is what you don't like..... and maybe from there it's the process of elimination????
2006-10-31 17:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang with a bunch of different types of guys, and go on group dates as well as one-on-one dates. This way you can find out what you like and what you don't like, and then keep building off of it. If you are really serious about finding a guy for you, eventually he will show up!
2006-10-31 17:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just let them come to me. But i did have my standards. I have always known what I like in a guy such as age, size, personality, and looks. Rarely will you find a guy that you think is absolutely perfect for you so somtimes you just have to let some of your standards slide a little bit and focus on the ones that are most important to you, such as his heart and his values.
2006-10-31 17:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kristina789 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly, I don't have a specific "type" I go for all different kinds of guys. I just look for the main qualities that I want in a man i.e honest, trustworthy, stable, funny...things like that
2006-10-31 17:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by you_know_you_want_me6996 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figured out what was important to me and what I was willing to compromise.
1) You'll never get someone perfect and you'd never want him to be anyway, too much pressure for you to be "perfect"
2) You have to enjoy spending time with them
3) The good times/things have to outweigh the bad
Other than that, figure out what you really want in a partner and seek out someone with those qualities.
Good luck
2006-10-31 17:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by vicvic* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't anyone really has a type of a guy.
I think that every girl just wants a guy that is attractive and that treats them good.
That's what i go for...... Because face it honey we aren't going to be young and beautiful for ever. LOL
Best Of Luck
2006-10-31 17:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the type of guy I like I would never marry well i actually did marry one and ended up divorced .. i don't think any one should have a type because then you miss out on some one who might really be worth getting to know .... and that's how I ended up with my second husband we have been married for 7 yrs and It's not always easy but he treats me like I should be treated ... and he is sooooo not my type..lol
2006-10-31 17:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trail and error, mostly. And then I came up with 5 rules. Instead of going into detail I will post a link to my MySpace blog on the subject.
2006-10-31 17:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relaxing - not expecting the world and being happy with the simple things in life aways helped me find a guy -
2006-10-31 17:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋