Me and my boyfriend have been trying have a baby. But he has came in me so many times and nothing yet. I'm kind of freaking out now, I don't know what the problem is.
2006-10-31 09:44:52 · 15 answers · asked by Lilmamasita 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Relax....Dont think about it when your having sex. Have you tried laying on your back with your feet propped up against the wall after he comes in you?? i have also heard that when a woman comes during sex, she is more likely to get pregnant, i dont know why though. If he cant make you come, then use something to help stimulate yourself while he is inside of you (like a vibrator on your clitoris). Sometimes it takes a really long time. But try what i have said. I am a mother of a 1 year old and another due in December. If you still feel that something is wrong after trying vigilantly for 4 or 5 months, then see a fertility doctor.
2006-10-31 09:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress plays a big part in this whole process. If you just relax, that will help a lot. If you are really concerned though, make an appointment to see your doctor. Also, there are products on the market that can help you track your ovulation so that you can try getting pregnant at exactly the optimal time of the month. Good luck!
2006-10-31 09:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Diane P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try for 6 months, remember it is not quantity it is timing and quality, stop smoking,drinking, exercise and drink water etc, and you have to find out when is it that you are ovulating because if you do it before or after your chances get slim.
After 6 months you can consider you might have a problem and you should seek medical help. Don't freak out, everything is going to be ok.
2006-10-31 09:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by L M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it's around your ovulation time!! Try having sex 10-15 days after the first day of your last menstrual cycle to increase your chances of becoming pregnant!! You need to give his sperm time to build up so that they can swim faster to fertilize the egg!! Try to relax because stress isn't good when trying to conceive!! Start taking prenatal vitamins or regular vitamins to prepare your body for the baby and clean out unnecessary things!! Continue to enjoy having sex with your bf and be patient!! Good Luck
2006-10-31 09:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard when you are trying. I have been told to keep track of your period for at least 4 months. then average the days between your periods. you then count 14 days back from the next day you are supposed to start and this is your optimal day to get pregnant. don't know if it works but i guess it could be worth a shot.
2006-10-31 09:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stressing over not becoming pregnant can cause anxiety, which doesn't help you conceive. If you have been trying for more than a year, it is time for both of you to be tested. See a reputable doctor. Call your primary doctor for a referral.
2006-10-31 09:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by ne11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic, that will just mess up your cycle and make it harder. But you need to ask yourself, do you and your boyfriend have jobs that will enable you to take care of a child? Having a baby is expensive. Do you any your boyfriend plan to get married? It's better for a child to have two parents.
2006-10-31 09:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different...some women can get pregnant the first time they ever have sex, and others it can take years....i know a woman who had tried for 4 years, finally they adopted and not but 6 months after they adopted, she got pregnant...weird...
sometimes stress and how healthy you are can have an effect on you getting pregnant...
2006-10-31 09:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by sherichance79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not always happen right away, stay calm. If you are still not pregnant after a year see a doctor.
2006-10-31 09:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take prenatal vitamins and enjoy the making cause after you have a baby you wont get it too oftern
2006-10-31 11:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by lp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋