What do you think about my life???
--I live in New Jersey
--i got no parents, they died when i was very little...i live wit my uncle and aunt now...
--My older brother is in jail in North Carolina(which i cant go visit, transportation reason)
--My older sister is in Honduras(which i cant go visit, transportation reason)
--My little brother lives with his father(my ex-stepfather)
--Can't work(not legalled to)
--Cant get my driver's license(not legalled to)
--Uncle dont let me do things that i need to make me feel confident about myself....
TRUE STORY..no lies
just to tell u, I DONT FEEL CONFIDENT ABOUT MY LIFE.....so tell me, what you think about my life?
2006-10-31 09:44:24 · 12 answers · asked by Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Honey, I'm sorry you lost your parents. Just be thankful your aunt & uncle wanted to take care of you & you didn't end up in foster care. But keep in mind that every teen goes through the same things with their parents that you're going through with your aunt & uncle. All teens want to do things they can't do. However, if you feel that he is truly being difficult, abusive, or just plain mean for no reason then you should talk to someone about it.
You really do need to change your way of thinking about things & be more upbeat & outgoing. It would take a lot of depression away from you if you start thinking differently.
2006-10-31 09:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should think about what is good about your life instead, there are alot of other kids that have absolutely NO ONE!! and NO PLACE to live, so be thankful for that, and I live in NJ also and I've learned that there are alot of surprises with food, culture, and places to enjoy. And think about this, I can honestly say we've never experienced floods, hurricanes, tornados, etc... Have you tried writing to your sister? How much is a stamp these days? Have you tried writing your brothers? Transportation issues are only temporary, you'll get whatever you need when the time is right!! When I need something to inspire me about my life I read, write, or listen to a favorite CD, so try that and try to work it out with your uncle by finding one of his favorie things that he likes to do, maybe that will connect you two!!
2006-10-31 09:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well everything you bring up is "can't". Things may be tough but someything that really does help is start a grateful journal, everyday write 5 things you are grateful for and i promise you in no time your life will start changing for the better, put focus on what is good about every situation instead of whats not. good luck i ampraying for you. go to a good church or do volunteer work for those that are less fortunate that will get you out of your slump, someone else always has it worse i promise be thankful for your aunt and uncle write letters to those you can't see right now
2006-10-31 09:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little lonely. Have you tried going to the gym or taking up sports? Your uncle, I'm sure, wouldn't object to that- and it'd give you both physical fitness, confidence, and perhaps let you meet some people. I know things can be hard, but remember that the solutions are often easier to achieve than you might think.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 11:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You overlooked 2: LIFE, AND WHY? God made you considering that He loves you. You have one of these factor referred to as 'rationale', that's why you're specified, certainly one of a form. That makes you 'specified', specified to not me, who cares approximately me, however specified to the person who created you--God. So, having coming to this end it could do you such a lot well, to seek His will to your existence, and reside it to the great of your potential. Good good fortune.
2016-09-01 05:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by kaufmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds tumultous and full of suffering. I feel for you boy.
2006-10-31 09:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by jimjones3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to see a chid services officer. i feel that your needs have not been met by your carer.
2006-10-31 09:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by jasesez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better than mine
2006-10-31 09:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Metallica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have it bad....but dont let that get you down......go to a consular at school if you can
2006-10-31 09:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by wish i could have my navy man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are, immigrant at least your not in jail and not homeless..crybaby
2006-10-31 09:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by GREATANSWERONI2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋