just curious..
2006-10-31 09:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. Things have worked out with my first love. I was fifteen and he was seventeen when we first met. We have grown and changed over the years. The neat thing is that we have grown and changed together rather than apart. I am now 33 and he is 35. We have three beautiful children (7,5,2). We have been married for 11 1/2 years, together for eighteen years.
He is still my best friend. He inspires me in ways that words can not express. He makes me wake up every morning and try to be a better person. He is the reason I can know that there is good in this world. He is the man that I want my son to become and the man I want my daughters to be lucky enough to marry.
Corny, I know. But true none the less. He's as vital to me as oxygen and water. I can't live without any of them.
So, no it's not foolish to wish. Things happen when they are supposed to, they way they are supposed to. I was lucky to be in the right place, at the right time. Every experience in my life up to the point we met, was preparing me to meet him. If you have relationships that don't work out, look at them as experiences. You will take the knowledge you gained from the failed experiences to assist you in ensuring you hang on to "the one" when they come into your life.
2006-10-31 09:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to. I ended up wasting a lot of time wishing it to be different. And I almost missed the best person ever to come into my life. Remember that a wish has no echo and makes you even more lonely when you keep repeating it and get no answer. Don't do it. Yes it's hard but recognize the past as the past and put your energies into the future.
2006-10-31 18:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by GW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess dealing with the broken heart and healing through it hurt so bad, that i wish it had worked out- just like my 2nd love (still in the process of seeing if it works out)- but honestly, i guess we all need to love and be hurt before we can truly know if we love the next person that we "think" we love. I could have seen forever with my first love though, however, I dont think that he would have been loyal (he is now with a lady that he isnt faithful to).
2006-10-31 17:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean as in we would be together now since we were kids ?? Hell no. Ive had so many experiences since then that I wouldn't trade for the world. If I was still with the first guy I wouldn't had a chance to do all this.
2006-10-31 17:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God I don't! If that were to happen, I would now be with a man who has the maturity of my dog and has no real goals in life...things happen for a reason, thank goodness!!!
2006-10-31 17:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by CF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm glad things didn't work out. Now that I'm vehemently opposed to romance, things wouldn't be too strong between us were we dating right now.
2006-10-31 18:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that would have been wonderful. Kinda hard to kick death's *** to prevent it from ending though...
2006-10-31 17:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........yeah. She never shaved her legs though.......but other than that...we were real cool. I admit....I was an a$$, and should've treated her better.
"Maybe in the next lifetime, when we are both cats...."
2006-10-31 17:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋