I have had a crush for my best friend since like 1 year ago, we spend so much time together and everybody keeps saying that he likes me too. Even he sings me love songs and stuff but never says anything serious. When people ask him about us, he doesnt say yes, but he wont say no either. But know he told me that one of his best friends, who is a guy I almost never talk to, has a crush on me, and he's like "oh, you feel like you rock because he likes you!" I'm 99% sure that that guy doesn´t like me, but then, why is my crush doing that?
2006-10-31 09:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by Blondie Beach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh this one is easy ha ha
Here is a bunch of probablies because I don't know the whole situation but from what you are telling this is how it is
The other guy probably does have a crush on you or he thinks the guy does. Your crush probaly likes you. Your crush probably knows or assumes you like him.
Guys can be just friends with a girl but it is rare. The things that you have mentioned sounds like he defenatly wouldn't be doing if he didn't like you. I think that he knows or suspects you like him and he is playing that card. He is saying that to see your reaction. THat's it. Seem uninterested!!That's what he is looking for. He wants to know if you like him and therefor won't be interested in that guy. Guys don't usually play hookup for fun. The one sentence "oh you feel like you rock because he likes you" says so much. Go for it. This guy likes you and I think likes you alot. He feels very comfortable and may even think that if you were to start going for this other guy he could snag you up before then. But don't do it that way bc you never know what might happen. I think this is a safe bet and if you go for this guy he will return your feelings. My own best friend that is a guy tried to talk up another guy to his crush (only friends at the time) and now they are married.
2006-10-31 09:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kara C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend mite be unsure of how you feel about him, as well! He may have told you about the other guy to see how you would react. Us guys do stupid things like that from time to time.
Ask him if this guy still likes you; if yes, tell him that you wish it was him liking you instead of this other guy. And see how he reacts!
And good luck with out love life sucks, with love it is nuts vill; some day Mr. Right will come along; just hope your not to involed with Mr. Wrongo!
2006-10-31 09:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds as if she in basic terms likes you as a buddy yet doesn't want something deeper then that. She's in all likelihood not waiting to commence a relationship or perhaps more effective she's too shy to commence one. you are able to ask her if she needs a boyfriend or sth like that yet when she doesn't doesn't experience an same way you may want to flow on - commence talking to different women and spend a lot a lot less time such as her for a lengthy time period -it could be puzzling at first and it takes time to get used to this yet its more effective perfect
2016-12-05 10:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by aune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay 2 things, #1 he might have just thought that you were cool to talk too, most opposite sexes feel its hard to be friends because someone always ends up liking the other, so he might not feel that way about you and is looking for a way to put you down.
#2 seriously, he might be gay.
Hope it helps
2006-10-31 09:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dee W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really wants to ask you out but he is afraid to...i know cuz that sounds like something i did once but i ended up asking her out. Try to give him really big hints so that he knows for sure that you like him. He wouldn't sing love songs to you for no reason
2006-10-31 09:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Maybe he likes u
and he wants to see how would
u react if he might of tell u
that he likes u.
Good Luck
& ****Happy Halloweeen!***
2006-10-31 09:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he think u like him too and u still have 1% of ungranty tht his friend likes u
2006-10-31 09:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you which is obvious, but like maybe hes not ready for a relationship. ive been in this situation before.. just ask him yourself.
2006-10-31 09:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be trying to play it off. I think you should tell him how you feel. what's the worst thing he can say...no?
2006-10-31 09:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he thinks you two arent ready yet. so hes trying to get you interested in someone else.
2006-10-31 09:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋