Okay so my boyfriend wants me to have a girlfriend. I was bi once but I dunno if i should go back to it or not. Any advice?? && I want it truthfully and from the heart yall..
2006-10-31 09:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well him and I have been dating for a while. And my friend and I just started joking around the other day talking about that we were lesbo. And thats how this hole thing got started.
2006-10-31 09:42:20 · update #1
dont do it. It may put the idea of being with another girl in a bad light if something bad comes out of this "Arrangement".
Seek out other women because YOU want to.
Being bi isnt like having a light switch on your attraction. You dont turn it on or off.
BUT this arrangement may go sour, and you make a choice to "Never trust women...." or something similar to that, which will cause you to close the door on a lifestyle that may eventually make you happy later in life.
Enjoy women because you want to. Let it be a "Treat" for him. Dont get involved just to spark things between you and your guy.
2006-10-31 09:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by diaz276 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do what u feel! why does ur BF want u to have a GF is it so he can have a 3 some? haha jk do what u feel .. i mean if u want a gf and a bf and u can manage them both then go ahead! theres no problem with going back to what u once were. i mean you might get talked about but if u like it then you should be fine!
2006-10-31 17:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, your answer is no! If you wanted a bi relationship you would have already jumped at the chance, and would not be asking about it. Go with your gut feeling here.
2006-10-31 17:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could get messy (no pun intended). What if you start liking the girlfriend more than the boyfriend? What if he starts getting jealous? Be very careful with this!
2006-10-31 17:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by kelsey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right for you. This is your life not your boyfriend's. He's probably hoping to fulfill some sick, twisted threesome mess he's thinking that he'll be able to get if you do have a girlfriend.
2006-10-31 17:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever feels right in your heart and mind, but sounds to me like your boyfriend is a slime bag, if I was you I would find a different one.
2006-10-31 17:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by borntolose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How I can change you. If you grow up, you should know what is the best for you.
2006-10-31 17:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump that guy.. What a loser. If he cared about you he would want you and only you.... Making any sense???????????
2006-10-31 17:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... dont ever do tht mean ur cheatin on ur gf n bf stay how u r
2006-10-31 17:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do it. it would make his day! I know i'd remember it for the rest of my life.
2006-10-31 18:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋