we've been datin for 2 years and we rly love eachother. but she thinks that i'm cheatin on her with her best friend but i'm not. she won;t believe me. wat should i do?
2006-10-31 09:34:18 · 11 answers · asked by champ22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Champ,
She is insecure about the relationship for some reason. You need to show her that she has no reason to be. You can say that you aren't cheating on her, or you can say that I love you and our relationship in secure, but its not going to make a difference until you show her.
When you are around her and her best friend, make sure you are with her, next to her, holding her hand, giving her kisses, talk to the friend, but be with your girl.
2006-10-31 09:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by Gaia Weeps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what happened to make her think that? If she is so jealous that she is ruining your relationship you need to confront her with that possibility right away. It could also be that she is cheating and that is where she got the idea that you might be. You should ask her to look in her own backyard since she is acting so paranoid about yours...
2006-10-31 17:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with her and explain rationally that you are not cheating. Does she have any evidence or witnesses that say that you've been cheating? It's her choice whether to believe you or not.
2006-10-31 17:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't talk to her friend or mention her or even look at her.
Trust me, I know about jealousy
It just means that your gf has a little lack of confidence
but she likes you
2006-10-31 17:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is it your doing to make her think that? Talk to her ask her why she thinks that and then ask her what you can do to make her see that it's not true. Tell her how you feel and listen to her I'm sure there's a reason she feels that way.
2006-10-31 17:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why won't she believe you?
Have you done something to make her doubt you?
And if you haven't then she's not a very good girlfriend.
Trust is everything.
2006-10-31 17:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you confront her and ask her y she doesn't believe u. communication is the key to any relationship. ask her what makes her think u r cheating and does she have any evidence to back up anything she claims
2006-10-31 17:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by angel30 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there must be reason why she thinks you're cheating. prove to her that you aren't.
if she doesn't believe you still, she's insecure about your relationship
2006-10-31 17:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that if she really loves you then she would believe you and that she is the only one in your life and you love her dearly
2006-10-31 17:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
after 2 years you should have built this one thing...what is it called again??? oh yeah, TRUST!
2006-10-31 17:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jared S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋