I meet a girl we get on really well. Exchange phone numbers. Send loads of flirty texts. Then she says she doesn't want to see me?
2006-10-31 09:33:53 · 11 answers · asked by dave_e_wood 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her reaction to the texts was that I was really sweet and a good smooth talker
2006-10-31 09:40:44 · update #1
I give up shes just e-mailed me to say she now wants to see me this weekend.
2006-10-31 10:40:33 · update #2
aww bless.huni u need to have some will power, control the situation and lay back..wait for an hour or so before u reply..joke about not being too fussy!! come across as hardworking, girls like that..gosh i wish i could take my own advice!!lolzzz..hope this helps..x
2006-10-31 09:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of girls tend to back off if a guy gets too flirty or familiar especially if they dont know them too well, try meeting up with the girl before you start sending too many flirty texts, get to know her in person and try flirting face to face instead. Good Luck
2006-10-31 09:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Need help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks you are playing her , or just playing with her , or maybe you want more and they want less!
I'm not sure! It does sound like they have their doubts about you because they think you are a player - always texting loads of girls , bit of an expert!!!
They may not trust that you are only interested in THEM , hmm..maybe you're a bit too dab hand at the flirting , so they think you are not serious about them , and just want a flimsy relationship?
2006-10-31 10:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The novelty wore off...she probably wanted you to be more serious and you did'nt recognise the signs. A woman wants more than just 'flirty texts'!
2006-10-31 09:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by mikers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How flirty are your texts? Maybe you think you are flirty but actually you're a bit scary? Try to tone it down a bit.
2006-10-31 09:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Fairy Nuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you being too smutty, dirty, full on with the texts?
although it is nice to flirt on text if it gets too smutty too quickly could put them off, might not know how to take it, might feel like you after one thing only, maybe leave that sort of content till you spent more time together?
2006-10-31 09:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEhat are ou putting in your txts I would kook at what you say and modify it x x x x x x x x
2006-10-31 09:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent met the right girl . dont give up. just have fun along the way
2006-10-31 10:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u get too flirty
2006-10-31 09:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
or maybe the texts aren't filthy enough?
2006-10-31 09:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by Simon K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋