love triangle.. im confused about this.. what must i do.. must i step back right now.. or must i fight her about him? but i still care bout my sistetr too! Arghh!!
2006-10-31 09:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Kumar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Step aside - sisters before misters.
2006-10-31 09:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes one has to evaluate what's more important, your own happiness or that of someone near and dear to you. sometimes the best kind of love is selfless love. it would appear that fate has helped you with your decision before you could even become REALLY confused. thing is, he likes your sister, do you want to fight your sister knowing its a losing battle so that, not only do you lose the guy you lose your sisters love and respect? ok, maybe she doenst show you love or respect, but maybe this is a good time to teach her you can be as unselfish as all that to bow out gracefully and not stand in her way? by the sounds of things, if you have to come on here to ask, i think you already know what answers lie inside your heart. and you know another thing which is an unspoken law in life is that if you love unselfishly, you usually get the best life and love has to offer.
2006-10-31 09:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes your sister and your sister likes him, you cant control it! fighting your sister isnt going to make him like you? you cant make someone like you...be the better person an just let it go...one day you'll look back and laugh. My relationship started like that, my sister and my bestfriend had a crush on my boyfriend of now 3 years, it was messy my sister made up lies about me and made scenses in front of him and everyone my bestfriend stopped talking to me! but it wasn't my fault it was love a first sight for both of us, you just have be happy for them. trust me i meant the world to me when they turned around, now we're all family.
2006-10-31 09:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dee W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's out of your hands. For a relationship to occur, it has to be mutual.
In this case, it isn't. Everyone deserves to be with someone who wants them, too. Move on, and be happy for the both of them.
2006-10-31 09:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Janet H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Guys will come and go but sisters are for life.
2006-10-31 09:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Bill D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for them and forget about him, there might be many boys but your sister comes first.
You will find another one, don't worry.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 09:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Firelei P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he likes her and she likes him back, you just have to back out and let them be happy.
2006-10-31 09:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋