if a guy asks you out and you are sooo not interested wat do you say to him????(and it is kinda because he isnt cute....he has a double chin)))))))))) HELP ME!!!!!!
2006-10-31 09:28:09 · 15 answers · asked by wish i could have my navy man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can just tell him you are not interested. You do not have to give a reason why you do not want to go out with him. But please be nice when you do it, no one like to be dismissed for their appearance, think of how you would want to be treated in the same situation.
2006-10-31 09:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to have other plans. Even if you really don't have plans just be like, "oh, I've gotta help my mom with this thing." If he asks you again, make a new excuse. I think after awhile he'll get the point because if you were really interested in him you would say "i've got this thing I gotta help my mom with, but I'll help her another day." Another tactic is to tell him your "kinda" seeing someone. That doesn't imply that you have a boyfriend but that you're involved at least. I would NOT recommend that you tell him the truth ("i don't wanna date you cuz you have a double-chin") cuz that would just hurt his feelings unnecessarily--sometimes, it's better to tell a little white lie than to make someone feel like s**t.
2006-10-31 09:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, if an opportunity comes, take it cause you never know..and in this, let me tell/remind you...ONE accident can disfigure/ruin the most gorgeous man features for life...Let's NOT forget the most gorgeous man can also treat you like a worthless scum bag.
He's NOT asking for a commitment....let him know you're NOT interested in anything serious; but you wouldn't mind going out in a group with other friends...Let him know that you have found that to be less strenuous for all since there's so many to interact with. No moments of uncomfortable silence. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-31 10:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by DayLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, but in the nicest way possible. Tell him that he's not exactly your type, but that you're extremely flattered, and maybe the two of you could be friends. Try not to hurt his feelings, as weird as it sounds, it's actually quite tough for a guy to ask a girl out.
2006-10-31 09:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by you_know_you_want_me6996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I want to clarify to you that inner beauty (personality) is the most important thing when contemplating who you choose to date. Although, I do know that looks are what ATTRACT at first.
Now, I would say that the offer is very sweet and touching, but...just clearly say no. Say that you would rather be friends instead. :) Hope this helps.
2006-10-31 09:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by sws_classic_caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I have the same problem!
the guy is trying to ask me on a date since like forever
I don't wanna hurt his feelings..
poor him every time I invent a lame excuse...
and he still doesn't get it...
Hey I have an idea
tell him that you are homosexual maybe he'll give up...
2006-10-31 09:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind. Tell him that he's a great guy but you like him as a friend, not as someone to date.
Someday, you may find that he is a wealthy, good looking, educated guy and you will kick yourself. It happens all the time.
2006-10-31 09:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you need to stop dating for a while and that you lik being single-but do it in a nice way
2006-10-31 09:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Thanks for asking, but no." Or, "Sorry, I don't think so." Just be nice and let him down easy. It probably took a lot of courage to even do the asking.
2006-10-31 09:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like "Thanks, but I'm not really interested. Sorry!" That's all you need to say, it doesn't take a long explanation or anything! Good luck!
2006-10-31 09:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋