My boyfriend and i broke up for about a month and a half after dating for five months. Even though we were briefly involved in rebound relationships during the break we loved and missed eachother too much to be apart. I'm ecstatic and he told me these past few weeks have been the best of his life(when we got back together). However, a few weeks ago before we got back together, he started bringing this girl to parties and stuff, and it kind of hurt me to see him with another girl. They weren't dating but she made it clear she is crazy about him. Now he told her he was getting back with me, but she even went to visit him a few days ago with friends, and is still very fond of him, and it was only a few weeks ago. He has said he doesnt really appreciate ehr talking to him all the time. It has kind of annoyed me, i mean i've got him but should i just try and ignore it?
2006-10-31 09:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you should tell your bf to tell her straight up that he doesnt want to be friends with her and that he doesnt want her to be looking for him at his friends house because you guys are back together.
2006-10-31 09:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just recently went through the same thing with my boyfriend. he broke up with me about a month and a half ago...things got way too serious way too fast! so we just decided to be friends. i remember the 1st time i saw him at the club with another gurl...it hurt me so bad! i couldnt move on just like that like he did. one night at the club i told myself to not let him get to me...i ended up meeting other guys and he didnt like it too much! but he was with a gurl he was dating! not too much longer...they stopped talking and we ended up spending a whole weekend together...we realized that we just needed to stop paying games and just be together! you cant ignore it! cuz they arent just friends from the 1st grade or something you know she likes him! and girls these days will do anything so some attention! your boyfriend should just tell her how he feels about you and tell her that he doesnt see her in that way...change his number if he has too cuz you dont want to be the jealous girlfriend that just causes problems....
2006-10-31 17:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it, YOU GOT HIM!! Don't get jealous or possessive, that will only anger and push him away!! If it ain't broke don't try to fix it!!! Trust what he says and go from there, she won't be the only girl that will like him, think he is cute, etc...
2006-10-31 17:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your boyfriend if he is truly offended by the girl's behavior. If he says yes leave it to him to say something. If he doesn't do anything let him know that it hurts your feelings.
2006-10-31 17:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by jackiemontgomer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't make a big deal out it. It is a small thing and nothing happened between them right?
2006-10-31 17:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants be with you. Is up to you how you can handle all the stuff around him. Just ignore.
2006-10-31 17:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore your competition and you will loose. tell the other girl to take a hike. go get emmmm tiger
2006-10-31 17:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by veerfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's wit u he's wit u...and if hes really not feeling this girl like hes feelin u, yeah ignore it...shes gotta get the hint sometime and back off....
2006-10-31 17:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont ignore it but dont bug him with its just clear the situation to him a watch him act freely and he will cut his realtion with this girl but i think it will happen slowly
2006-10-31 17:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by peter prince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'a not your battle,if your man doesn't want her then he will make it clear,if he still sees her he's again making it clear.
2006-10-31 17:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋