I have this big problem for some reason. Every time I go somewhere, there is always a girl that wants to start a fight with me or I get ugly looks. Sometimes I can hear little comments that they make and they don't even know me. It gets really frustrating because it is really hard to make friends with females. I am a very friendly person and I don't think that I deserve to be treated this way by other females. Can anyone explain to me why some people behave this way?
2006-10-31 09:25:00 · 16 answers · asked by Pinky 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Welcome to life. These girls are probably suffering from "low self-esteem" and they are jealous of anyone who they perceive might be more "attractive" then they are.
Just remind yourself that it is "their" problem and don't let them make it yours. Women who are confident in themselves won't treat you that way - hang out with them!
Best of luck, don't let a few insecure girls keep you from being friendly.
2006-10-31 10:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a female but females in general are very mean and they can really hurt your feelings. I can tell you this if you are attractive and smart you are a huge target. Women are so critical of each other and alot of them are so insecure that they will point out every flaw in order to make themselves feel better the best way to deal is not to respond take it with grace and then they will have another reason to hate on you because not only are you pretty and smart you are kind and understanding.
2006-10-31 13:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by 33kasper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a combination of their having low self-esteem and you presenting yourself in a dominating way. A lot of people think that they're being "friendly" and they don't realize that they're actually being cocky or aggressive.
2006-10-31 11:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you dressed yourself in a proper fashion someone would take you seriously. You look like a girl on the prowl with you picture.
2006-10-31 10:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alot of women are just jealous. They need to pick with someone because they feel insecure so they pick at you. Just ignore them and know that there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-10-31 09:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by super.sassy25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are just b!tchy by nature...i don't even think there is a reason besides jealousy. and the thing is, is that we are all guilty of it at one point or another....it's really sad if you think about it
2006-10-31 09:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your avatar is a photo of you...you have a snobby thing going on...
They hate you out of jealousy...
2006-10-31 09:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Freakgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, well if that's your real picture the answer is obvious. you are serious competition, among females this is a biological certitude.
2006-10-31 09:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
jealousy probably. besides, every1 knows that girls can be jerks!! we're biased and judge ppl before we know them, its a sad fact
2006-10-31 09:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋