i am a 20 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend for four years. the problem is i still get really jealous even if he sits next to a girl or calls one. he's never cheated on me and nor has anyone else so i dont know why i'm like this and i know it's a problem and i don't want to be unfair on him by being like this
2006-10-31 09:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by String of pearls 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u seem really sweet, all i can say is the fact that you are feeling jealousy, proves how much u really like the person, and even after four years the spark hasnt gone. Feeling this emotion is completely natural. u should be worried if u didnt feel jealous, as that would show u werent really bothered and your heart wasnt in it. Trust me, its natural..but if u feel its getting out of hand, and making u insecure..look in the mirror, smile and realise why he has been with u for so long and why what u have is 'true love'..all ur insecurities have gone. No1 is perfect..but stop focusing on any flaws, because your positive attributes far outweigh the negative!..hope this helps..x
2006-10-31 10:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-31 12:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no cure. If you're like that, you're like that. You might trust him, but if you're jealous, it just means you care. You wouldn't be jealous if you didn't care, right? As long as it doesn't get out of hand, you're ok. I get really jealous, and thats ok, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Just try and keep a lid on it, and accept that he has female friends, and that he won't do anything...It's your problem, not his, so don't make it his problem. You should be ok...
2006-11-01 00:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by iwatchedthestarsfallsilently 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Nan was a very jealous lady all her life she had no friends, and only 2 people at her funeral.
Get over it 'chill out' being jealous drives people away but you CAN change I am proof of that.
My Nan dies alone at 90.
2006-10-31 09:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cure for jealousy is unconditional love
2006-10-31 09:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by adegoke_joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and realize the love that you two have for each other. If you cant trust him, then why are you still with him. A relationship isnt a relationship without trust.
2006-10-31 09:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by An Agent of Chaos 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no cure 4 that i had the same problem but its all a matter of trust and knowing he/she only loves you.
2006-10-31 09:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey all this means is you care for your partner very much and the only cure i can suggest is just accept tha he wil talk to girls and he is garenteed not to leave you. hope this idvice helps your problem
2006-10-31 09:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by bigd2k6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huni i wish there was coz i would bottle it n selll it.. and take it myself.. i am the most jealous girl ever.. i try not to be but i carnt help it.. i doubt i will ever change it.. unless theres medication for it lol xxx
2006-10-31 09:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by cathrin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋