shes gets mad at me if i flirt with another girl, or if i even look at another girl. i dont get it she broke up with me but she acts like she owns me. today i had enough of it and snapped on her and she said "yeah thats nice of u, u know im stressed and u pull this crap on me" pull crap on her? she got mad at me the other day when one of her friends called me sexy. what should i do? and what is her deal?
2006-10-31 09:05:47 · 12 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She obviously wants to have her cake and eat it too. She sounds like she doesn't want to be with you, but wants you to be pining after her. I've seen it a lot before - it's a case of the girl loving the attention so much, and not liking it when she loses it. I'm guessing you paid quite a lot of attention to your ex when you were with her?
In any case, if she keeps it up, break the connection entirely - I know sometimes you might feel like you want to stay for friends, but often it is best for the both of you if you just never talk again...or at least, very rarely talk/meet. That way, she'll be given time to realise how stupid she was to get rid of you, and you'll shed the weight off your back and be able to make a fresh start.
Whatever you decide to do though, if you don't like her anymore, don't get suckered into getting back with her again. Relationships with past breakups NEVER last.
2006-10-31 09:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Aidan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has an ownership issue. like she didnt want to be with you but doesnt want to be alone or let anyone else have you. it makes her comfortable acting like your g/f and knowing she has you, but she really doesnt want a relationship w/ you anymore. when other girls flirt w/ you it makes her mad because it makes her feel like she is loosing control or that you may like this other girl and then she will have no one. have you asked her if she wants to be your g/f again? chances are she got lonely after you 2 broke up and now she is clinging until someone new comes along. if you really want her back then put your foot down. dont give her what she wants. but then a good relationship shouldnt be run by games. good luck man!
2006-10-31 17:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by patrick U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's plain possessive. She doesn't want you anymore but she also wants to make sure that nobody else in her social circle gets you. Besides, you dating any of her friends means there is the possibility of you giving away her dirty little secrets. So that really frightened her.
Maybe you shouldn't keep her in the loop about your progress in the dating situation so she won't have the opportunity to bug you.
2006-10-31 17:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby she thought u thought she was joking.a lot of girls do do that.i know.iam 1.or maby u misunderstood her.or maby she was just in a bad mood and took it out on u.if u still like her and have feelings 4 her ask her what she meant.if she says any of the above,tell her u didnt understand what she meant and ull stop.if u dont like her anymore,tell her to leave u alone(but in a nice way).trust me shell understand.if not shes not worth it anyway.
2006-10-31 17:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a possessive b*tch,you do whatever you want babe,take no notice of her.It sounds like she's jealous so maybe don't flirt with other girls in front of her cuz thats just disrespectful to her feelings,but u are a free agent so don't let her dictate to you how you should act around other ppl! x
2006-10-31 17:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should u guys still be friends?? Do u still act like you're with her? Maybe she's really confused and don't know what she wants. Front her on it. LEt her know you're NOT together and she needs to move on.
2006-10-31 17:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you do now is none of her friggin business. It isnt, and it isnt up to you anymore to do things to make her happy. She made sure of that when she broke up with you.
2006-10-31 17:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs a new boyfriend. Help her find one. When she's busy with him, she'll leave you alone.
2006-10-31 17:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave her alone for a while have no contact until she finds someone else to bother.
2006-11-01 02:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to let you go or she plain crazy
2006-10-31 17:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Octavio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋