I just wonder how could men jump to bed with a woman they hardly know without guilt?
2006-10-31 08:53:28 · 43 answers · asked by Rochelle5969 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why, can`t you?
2006-10-31 08:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 11⤊ 13⤋
Woman Without Love
2016-12-18 06:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh there are feelings, all right -- they're just a little bit further south than the heart :)
Yes, there's a difference between men and women, and this is one of the big ones. The vast majority of men, given a chance to have no-strings sex with a woman they barely know, will go at it with little or no reservations -- and not feel guilty afterwards. It's not only possible, it's highly desired. Sorry, but that's how we're wired. That doesn't mean we can't and don't fall in love, or commit to one woman (I'm married 16 years, never cheated and never will) -- but yeah, we can do that pretty easily.
2006-10-31 09:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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I just wonder how could men jump to bed with a woman they hardly know without guilt?
2015-08-19 01:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is it would be impossible for a women to truly understand this. Men are attracted to women to begin with because of their physical appearance. Many men view sex as a normal function of life and while it is always better with someone you love it does not always have to be.
Men vary on this as much as women do. Some would never think of doing what you say. Most however would either like to or do.
The excitement of getting that woman in bed is such a powerful draw it is very easy to overlook the morality of it.
I will give myself as an example. I was born and raised Baptist. But more importantly I was very shy. So never had a date all through high school. When I joined the Navy I soon found myself in Hong Kong, China.
About the second time on liberty I went to a bar. The hostess was a knockout and their job is to get the customers to buy them drinks any way they have to. So they will sit with you as long as you want and they are 'very' friendly.
After several hours of this I began to really hurt between my legs.
It is referred to as blue balls and I don't recommend it. I left to walk it off but that wasn't going to happen.
I went back asked her out and she was my first woman. Before the pain I had misgivings about it and would not do it but.....
So there are a lot of reasons why guys do this. Sex for men is one of the most wonderful experiences in life. And sense each woman is different it can be like the first time every time.
2006-10-31 09:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I tend to always feel someone for a girl, even for the smallest things. If I jumped to bed with a woman i would start to have feelings for her and want a relationship. They probably do that because they have no care for another's feeling. I heard when AIDS started to become more known, that some guy was having sex with a bunch of women and in turn giving them the virus. Who knows why they do it. Who knows how in 1982 Saddam killed all those Shiites. Who knows why when america became a country and talked about freedom, they had enslaved blacks and treated Native Americans like sh**. There are people in this world who can't feel.
2006-11-06 08:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
As a youngster it was all about sex thats it, do what you have to do to get some.
Now a lil older 26 I don't waste my time chasing women I don't feel anything for just for sex, it's pointless and way to much work.
But if a girl is pursuing me and she's around at the right time She will get it, but no emotion. It's just the nature of things.
2006-10-31 08:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can jump into bed with a dude I DON'T know and just met that night...with no emotional attachment. In fact, I really don't even want to talk to him the next day....maybe we could out some other time...but really I could careless. *shrug* It's just sex...that's all...just sex. I have meaningless unemotional sex all the time...I love being single and attractive. I can do whatever I want, to whomever I want, whenever I want!!! With no strings attached. It's great! :)
So it really just depend on the person not the gender...b/c I'm a chick and can have as much meaningless sex as the next guy and probably more b/c I'm a hot female..and men are WAAAYY too easy and predictable.
2006-10-31 08:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men have the ability,(and some women too), to live completely for the moment at hand. They do have feelings for the woman but they may only last until the next one comes along.
It's all about attraction. You can be attracted to someone, enjoy their company & the physical pleasure that it provides and not feel guilty. Both parties have had a need fulfilled.
2006-10-31 09:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by ace1golfguy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are wired differently. We think about sex probably about once every 10 minutes in one form or another. Not all men look at women as conquests, but a lot do.
2006-10-31 08:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by joey_z40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they associate sex with love. Not love with sex as women do. Women usually have sex with a person they love first. Whereas a man has sex and then realizes the possibility of love. I think they need to test the car before they buy it. Whereas a woman know she wants something and will not test it first she notices all the good things about it and then succumbs.
2006-10-31 08:58:09 · answer #11 · answered by vidamar 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋