I asked my boyfriend if everything was okay and he said no. He acussed me of cheating because I have been online a lot lately and when he tries calling my phone it doesnt go through. I am not and have never cheated on him I love him to much to hurt him like that, plus I have been cheated on enough to know how it feels. And as far as my phone I have gone to verizon three times and each time they tell me there is nothing wrong with my phone. I am not ignoring his calls at all because I have not recieved any from him. So now the fate of our relationship is on him because he doesnt trust me and no matter what I say I feel it's not going to change his mind. And I have explained all this to him and told him to check it out for himself but he says he doesn't have to. So should I just break it off first because I am losing a lot of sleep over this and getting physically sick.
2006-10-31 08:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by jstylez1588 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, usually when someone is so "sure" you are cheating, it means they are and are trying to turn the blame on you and hope you have so they don't feel so bad. it's not always the case but if he's not even willing to let you prove him wrong, dump his ***. he's probably done something wrong himself if he doesn't want to be proved wrong.
2006-10-31 09:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rockstar Jersey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a person is accusing the other person of cheating, that is the person who is cheating, and I would venture to say that he is using the phone issue to make you feel like you did something wrong. Losing sleep and getting physically sick are not good signs. And if he does not TRUST you, that is a key element in a positive relationship,if that is not there and he is unwilling to discuss this with you (COMMUNICATION) then I would say Good Bye!!
2006-10-31 09:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be cheating on you as well.. or is feeling guilty about something. Usually when the other person gets to be this bad.. and accuses their partner of cheating. they have usually have or about to..
Break up with him.. Trust is important.. Dont lose sleep hon or get sick.. they aren't worth it.. so much more fish in the sea.
2006-10-31 08:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes time to bail out... whats left anyway? If he isnt listening now do you think he will listen to anything else in the future that he chooses to ignore, take the hint.... the guy wants out.. be a lady and walk away, if you have to worry and argue now, what does the future hold? A smart woman knows when to back off.
2006-10-31 08:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by bluelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're completely honest with him and are not cheating, and he still doesn't believe you, then it's all on him, not you. Don't let him spin this around on you! Tell him that you're only going to tell him one last time that you aren't cheating and if he still thinks you are, then dump his ***, maybe that will smarten him up! and if it doesn't, then try to find a man who will trust you and understand life's little glitches without thinking you're cheating!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2006-10-31 08:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, if he doesn't trust you then what's the point in being with him?
My advice, break things off. You'll sleep alot better at night. Just tell him that you need to end this because you can't be with someone who doesn't trust you.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 08:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are sick because of this you have to do what is right so when you go to bed think about your next day, and if you think that you can start the day better without this problem then it´s obvious that you have to go separated way´s
2006-10-31 08:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by chiorean m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust you. You told him the truth so there is nothing you can do. I think its time to move on.
2006-10-31 08:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would feel better without him, there is no reason to hang on. He is making you miserable.
2006-10-31 08:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's guilty of something himself...turn the tables and ask him what's up
2006-10-31 08:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋