Ok i am a jw and believe in a paradise and all wicked will be destroyed. Well you can't really commit unforgiven sins or you wont make it into the paradise. I have let a guy go down on me and finger me, so if i have already sinned (unforgiven, no one knows) should i just have sex and get it over with b/c i'm already screwed?
2006-10-31 08:44:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not screwed. You should just pray to Jehovah and ask him for his forgiveness. Don't go all the way with this guy. Because, at the end you will feel bad. Because, you know that this is displeasing to your GOD.
2006-10-31 08:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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You are not "screwed" yet.
You are a human being, none of us are perfect.
We all have made mistakes before,
make mistakes now,
and will make mistakes in the future.
Ergo, the need for forgiveness.
Forgiveness is the tool that keeps people from saying what you have said:
"Should I just _________b/c i'm already screwed?
Forgive yourself...and go one further
get to know who you really are, and accept your TRUE self, flaws and all.
jw "religion" is based on keeping people tight within the church and giving only to the church, and they have lots of rules of damnation to keep you scared to not go outside the churc$.
$$$$
Live your life to the fullest. Don't do mean things to others, nor to yourself. Be wise in your decision so that you will be proud and happy. If you make a mistake...
well, you might as well come down of your cloud and join the human race.
Live ~ Laugh ~ Love
stw
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2006-10-31 16:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All religion is about control, doesn't matter which one. They do that by making you feel guilty for doing things that are perfectly natural. Ask yourself, what kind of a malicious cruel God would make sex so pleasurable, give you a powerful urge to have sex, then punish you for all eternity doing it?
Forget the hellfire and brimstone nonsense and just be the best person you can be. Sex just happens to be one of the most wonderful things about being alive. And don't forget, when you're dead, you're dead for a very very long time.
2006-10-31 16:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that then you might as well if you want to.
HOWEVER, do not engage in sex unless it is of your own free will. Do not be coerced by another person, or by a feeling of being condemned already.
Think about how you stated it "...should i just have sex and get it over with b/c i'm already screwed?" If that is your outlook on it then you probably shouldn't do it.
2006-10-31 16:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Axeman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your religion is very weak if it doesn't allow for atonement and forgiveness. Surely God doesn't expect humans to be perfect - if He did, He would have made us all angels instead.
So go ahead and confess to your church/priest/whatever and get forgiven and go to heaven. Or - guess what - you just confessed to us and we'll forgive you (but I suppose forgiveness from a bunch of sinners doesn't count?).
Why are letting the technicalities of your religion keep you from doing what you know in your heart to be the right thing, and to keep you from heaven?
2006-10-31 16:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what happens when people die so the answer is easy for me. For you, if you truly believe what you believe, then you can repent for your sins and make things right. So you are not screwed. The bigger question is...do you want to wait until you are married to have sex.
2006-10-31 16:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by denverwazzup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please relax and don't get your self stressed about it, it is NOT a sin.
If you want to have sex do it, but do not think I may as well and do it for the sake of it - do it when you feel ready.
Sex can be a beautiful and loving wonderful thing, how can that be a sin?
2006-10-31 16:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well according to several younger women and men I have talked too, oral sex is not classified as sex anylonger! so technically, you are still whole...not unclean at all and ready for your big for ever after!!!
now if your really looking to just get it over with, well hell....I'm more than willing to make sure you get it done correctly!!! I also guarantee that you'd be calling to JESUS the whole time!
2006-10-31 17:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is all forgiven , don't let anyone tell you he's not , and he'll forgive what u did , and if u sin again and repent before you die he'll forgive you again ,but how do you know you won't end your life with sin , for more info contact me.
2006-10-31 16:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.No...It should when you want to and are in love...not out of shame you feel for what you've already done. No No No don't do it. I don't feel you have sinned so unforgivably.
You can be forgiven.....JESUS
Doesnt your religion offer forgiveness at all? Speak to your jw leaders.
2006-10-31 16:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by just lQQkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋