Me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex for the first time. I am kinda scared because I dont think he will like my body. I cant find anything good about it. I just had surgery on my navel and now its an outie and its really ugly. I also have stretch marks on my boobs. I hate how my body looks. I hate almost everything about it. I think my boyfriend will think its ugly too. I think I am ready for sex because I know that he loves me and I am not scared of getting pregnant or anything. I am just scared of what he will think....what should I do?
2006-10-31 08:35:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband has expressed a man's feeling on this very subject...
he firmly states that men are much more attracted to women with confidence in themselves as much as the body they are offerring to them... i say, feel sexy act sexy and he won't care. if it bothers you that much, turn the lights off and make love either in the dark or by the light of candles....
2006-10-31 08:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I had sex for the first time, I had the same insecurities that you have. He reassured me that he liked my body and that I had nothing to be ashamed of. He told me that just because I'm not a size two (or even a size twelve) doesn't mean that I'm not beautiful, that I was the most beautiful girl he'd met and that his opinion was all that mattered. Just let your boyfriend know that you feel insecure and see what he tells you
2006-10-31 08:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your ready to be pregant but i think that if he lovs you it wont matter about your body a pperance. but if your afarid where a long shirt to bed and just let im take down your underwea you dont have to do it naked. and just tel him if he ask why you have a shirt on that you dont want him to see yourf belly buttoun intill it heals. and many gurl have stretch marks n ther chest because i have some on my *** and the side of my stomach butmy boy friend doent care he say it NATURAL. and i think he will be worried about your stretch marks when all his blood is gone to be rushing to his dick. But if he loves you he wont care about nothing but still strap up even if he love you and you love him.
2006-10-31 08:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it in the dark. It has worked for ugly people since the invention of fire. Don't worry about it, sweety. NO ONE has a perfect body. It's how you make him feel, not what you look like. Honest.
2006-10-31 08:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Worrying will be a bad bed companion especially as it will be your first time. For all you know, your bf will just LOVE your body. Your mind also matters I hope.
2006-10-31 08:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by I Drum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are ready for sex, but honey you aren't. Not until you can love yourself & be totaly comfortable with the one you choose to give yourself to. All girls have body isues, I do, but I accept them & so does my b/f, because he loves me. You need to wait untill you are ok with yourself b4 you expect someone else to be.
Good luck girl!
2006-10-31 08:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have an inny but I do have stretch marks too. It's ok.
2006-10-31 08:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by ~Blue Eyes~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the lights off.
2006-10-31 08:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Have fun. Nobody's perfect. Get him hot and bothered and he won't care what you look like.
2006-10-31 08:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BITE HIS you know what and then he will be hurting so hard for you he wont even nottice
2006-10-31 08:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by hotbeast 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋