my boyfriend just broke up with me and he was cheating on me! anyway, now he wants to get back together. i want to go back with him, but, then again, there is a side to me that says he is going to cheat on me again. i don't know wether i should go back out with the boy i love, or throw him on the curve and start over with a new guy. what should i do?
2006-10-31 08:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by nikki101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him. youll move on fast if you just go and hook up with the next guy showing the loser that you dont need him and are not waiting around for him to take you back. so run. go have fun with someone else =)
2006-11-02 07:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you straight out that most likely if you go back with him you are not going to have a good relationship. It is so hard to get over an old relationship and it really hurts, but if you get back together you are always going to have this thought that he is cheating, even if he is not. That is really hard to deal with, and you will drive yourself crazy.
I mean I know you really love him, I was in a similar situation, but I choose not to go back and I am so happy I choose that. I am really happy now, even though the first 6 months were horrible. You can and will find someone who will love you and somebody you can trust in a new relationship.
good luck
2006-10-31 16:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's defintiely your choice....But, do you think you can get over the fact that he has cheated on you? That may be a big obstacle to get over. And, if you can't get over it will damage your relationship again causing you guys to break up. You also have to deal with the trust factor. If you don't trust your boyfriend I would say don't even bother getting back with him because it will cause you more stress and heartache. Trust is major in a relationship, if you don't have that you have nothing. Also, I think you could find another boyfriend. That just my personal opinion. No one deserves to be cheated on and you can definitely get a man that wants to be with you exclusively. But, the choice is yours. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 16:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never take someone back that cheated on you once. I had to learn this the hard way. It starts off with cheating then it can become something worse, you know. They will do as much as you let them get away with. Don't give in be strong. It's hard, yes, but you need to fight your feelings for the cheater.
2006-10-31 16:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by girl_is_depeche 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, tell him to look you in the eye. Men commonly make the mistake of cheating, but if after that they want to get back with their steady couple, it probably means they have feelings.. I already went thru that, and weve been together for 5 years.. and hes never done it again..
2006-10-31 16:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by ssota 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get back with someone who cheated on you is cheating yourself. He has already shown you that he is not worthy of your trust. Someone can only treat you as a doormat when you lie down and allow them to walk all over you. Raise your standards and know that you deserve a guy that only has eyes for you.
2006-10-31 16:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would throw him on the CURB, he cheated on you with some other girl's "curves." There are plenty of guys out there, and they all want what you got, girlfriend! You don't need this l-o-s-e-r who clearly has no respect for the good thing he HAD. Move on, baby.
2006-10-31 16:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. Just go into it with your eyes open, if you do decide to get back together with him. Make sure it doesn't bother you that he'll cheat on you again, because he will.
2006-10-31 16:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mary C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's gonna cheat on u again Jus 4 about him
2006-10-31 16:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by crybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back together with him. How could you be in a relationships if you dont trust the person?
2006-10-31 16:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋