I realize that this is usually a pretty simple question to answer, but I feel like I have some different circumstances to deal with here. My ex and I have been broken up for 2 months now. She fired me the day after I got home from a 5 week out of town work period and we hadn't seen eachother very much over the summer. The absence made my feelings for her grow very intensly and I thought about her every day and couln't wait to get back home and improve our relationship because it was a bit rocky when i left. She told me she needed time alone to find herself, which I didnt believe, and she has been dating my step-brother for 3 weeks now. I had to go to our old apartment to pick up some things because she is moving and we got to talking. She admited to me that dating my bro is a mistake and she doesnt expect it to last, she says she misses me and trys to spend time with me occasionally. I'm supposed to go to her new place for dinner this weekend while he is out of town. What's the deal???
2006-10-31 08:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by cjkaniman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't know what she wants. She needs time to mature and realize what her feelings are.
2006-10-31 08:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you but she has probably been dating your bro a lot longer than she is admitting. I suspect they have been together for a while and when you were gone they both decided not to hide it from you anymore. Your step brother is a piece of crap for doing this to you as well.
You should get as far away from those two as possible and don't look back. This girl is trouble and if she has that little of respect for you (then to date your brother behind your back) then you deserve better dude.
She and your brother sound like they frequent Jerry Springer. It is hard to believe but I can almost guarantee they began their courtship b4 y'all broke up.
2006-10-31 08:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by holbrpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your own judgment... namely your gut feeling. There may be true remorse between the two of you, but then again, it didn't work the first time around. It's a good thing that you are good friends and continue a relationship regardless if it is romantic or not.
My advise is to go with your gut. If it says try it... then try it. If it says don't bother, you'll only get your heart broken again. Best of luck to you and your ex.
2006-10-31 08:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Maverick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is that your ex-girlfriend needs to figure out what it is she wants to do. First she said she needed to find herself, but found herself with your stepbrother. Then she waits to invite you over, knowing that he's going out of town.
I would back off and leave her alone. Tell her you'll talk after she's found herself, broken up with your stepbrother and figured out what she wants to do. None of those things depend on you having dinner with her.
Do you really believe that she's worth all this? It sounds like you're headed to the Land of Drama. Let her make the trip alone.
2006-10-31 08:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you tell ME, whats the deal...let me summarize, your wife is dating your brother....your going to sneak around with her this weekend because HE'S out of town.....hmmmmmm and YOU want to know whats the deal ? Grow some testicles and tell her and your brother to F off.
2006-10-31 08:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, do not walk... RUN away and don't look back.
are you out of your mind???? You are considerting taking back someone who dumped you when you were away working and you didn't even have a good relationship then... and NOW she's banging your step brother>>>>> come on...
2006-10-31 08:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really like punishment don't you?!! You are going back for more, find someone worthy of you, be a man and walk away from this hooker.
2006-10-31 08:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away. run away very fast. she dumped you & is dating your step brother - is this really the kind of person you want to be with? seriously?
2006-10-31 08:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds confused, inmature, and wants to play games!!!
Drop her and move on!!
This is not "Bold & The Beautiful"
Is she trying to be Brook!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 08:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The deal is, stay away!
Is she straight, bi, using you, using your step-bro?
It's way too much.
2006-10-31 08:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by lynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋